I’ve had, what the spankers thought were, punishment spankings but to me spankings are always play. For some though punishment or incentive spankings are an important part of their activities. This is especially true for those in DD and CDD relationships. For these relationships to be successful it is important for the dominant partner to have a thorough knowledge of their partner and even in a true punishment spanking between people that are not in a relationship, it is vital for the spanker to know the real reason for the punishment, what it is achieve and how to go about it. And that leads us to this weeks Thought, this week it is something for Tops to keep in mind when deciding on a just and reasonable action.
Punishment isn’t about making someone do what they don’t want to do
Punishment is about getting someone to do what they secretly want to do
(Source – Converted from a saying by Waiter Rant)