I decided to participate in March questions month and here are the answers that I have given. The questions are ranked in chronological order from the first asked to the last
I know you go to pro dommes (I’m right aren’t I?)
Do you find spankings arouse you? and if they do……. is it difficult considering the spanking isn’t with a primary partner?
You are right morningstar I do employ the skills of pro Dommes and Disciplinarians, including those of the lady in the photograph above. Fantasizing about spankings arouses me but actually being spanked has the opposite effect and I find that I would much rather enjoy the spanking and the high that it gives me, than participate in “Adult happy Time”. I have participated in sexual activities in play situations in the past but this was to satisfy the desires of the other party involved and not for my gratification. I also play with fellow amateur enthusiasts but I will not be likely to write about those encounters on this blog
Naughty Nora Asked
Hmmmm….well, as you have probably gathered, my particular kink is spanking as discipline. Could you share with your readers about a memorable time you were spanked for being naughty? Or, if that doesn’t apply….perhaps you could share about your most memorable spanking?
Nora I play for fun and the high that I get from playing. BUT I have always aspired to be a stoic spankee and I do not always achieve that, being a bit of a dancer and flincher when taking some. When I cannot control myself whilst playing, I feel better if I am punished for that at the time rather than beating myself up mentally about it for weeks afterwards. Once some time ago I was being caned and repeatedly blocked with my left hand. I requested that I be dealt with for this offence but the person I was playing with was reluctant to be more harsh as we were already playing very hard. She told me to sit on the table, that I had been bending over and then gave me six hard cane strokes on the front of my thighs. I did not like this, neither psychologically nor the type of pain it caused. The threat of it happening again proved to be an effective deterrent and I kept my ordered positions for the rest of the play session.
Would you name 3 implements that are employed regularly (or have been in the past) besides the hand, on your behind (or your spankee’s behind) and rank them in order of preference pls
Number 3 – Belt
Number 2 – Flogger
Number 1 – Cane
morningstar Asked Again
I am curious how you came to live where you do? I know your parents are in Britain…
My parents are now both deceased but did live in the UK. I found work with an organization that operates internationally. First they sent me to The Netherlands and then they sent me to Belgium. Then they wanted to send me back to the UK and I did not want to go back there and so left that organization and found work here in Belgium and decided to settle here permanently
In what capacity do you use your botanical skills? Vegetable yields? Garden design? Something else? As a gardener with small ponds, I’m curious.
Also……….what is your opinion of Affligem Tripel?
I am afraid that I have not tried that beer yet. There are so many to get through in Belgium but I will give it a go next time that I see it
By qualification, I am an Amenity Horticulturist specializing in the use of plants and other ornamental green stuff in areas to be used by people. I have designed and created maintenance plans, am a trained and experienced adult instructor and my personal specialities are in topiary and herbaceous perennials although I am skilled in many other aspects of ornamental and utilitarian horticulture. Having said that I currently and for some years now, only working as a professional gardener, due to having less than perfect written Dutch and my own desires to keep my hands in the earth and avoid a desk job
As I understand it (please correct me if I am wrong), you have experienced being both spanker and spankee. Which is your preference?
Where in the world would you like visit (when that becomes an option again)?
The next place to tick off is a trip to the Rhine Gorge but I think that I would throw that over right now, for a chance to have a tour of the UK to see some of my family, none of whom I have seen since Christmas 2019
I am by nature a spankee but have and am still prepared to switch if the occasion arises. Although I never seek to Top, I am happy to help someone else get to their happy place and I believe that experience on the receiving end helps develop the skills to achieve that
How about just letting your readers know just a little more about you. I know you are British, but that’s it.
I am afraid that I am not going to answer that one MJ, for the same reason that I do not have an email address on my blog. Some time ago, when this blog got a lot more traffic than it does now, I attracted the attentions of some far right groups in Belgium, who were not happy about my internet activities here. All of the blogs and other internet media that I knew about are gone now, due to anti terrorism laws but with more private platforms available, for example WhatsApp, I cannot be sure that they are not still having bad thoughts towards me and so am not going to hand them, on a plate, my identity. Honestly I think that 999 out of a thousand of these people are just piss and wind but it only takes that one in a thousand nut job to do you harm
I hope that you all enjoyed that. I think that if I do this again next year I will split the answers into two or more posts but it was an interesting project to take part in
Oh my!! I learned so much more about you — but the last bit answer to MJ’s question kinda blew my mind…. all I could think was ‘REALLY – how awful!’ and I always thought Europeans were so open minded.
BUT thanks for answering my questions – you filled in some blanks I had – developing my picture of you. AND I asked TWO questions??!! LOL I obviously forgot I had asked the first one..
They were two good questions morningstar. There is racism and those that would suppress others everywhere, it’s just how the world is
Thank you for all of these thoughtful answers, Prefectdt! It does sound like she gave you a rather good deterrent… I have never been caned on the front of my thighs but it sounds terribly painful! I imagine you will remember to keep your hands out of the way during your spankings 🙂
It isn’t any more painful than being caned on the bottom Nora but it is a different kind of pain and one that my mind could not convert into pleasure and thus constituted a real act of punishment. It has happened again since then, it works as a genuine punishment for me
Nods. I guess I feel this way about discipline spankings…there is no part of it that feels good to me!
And where to look for such pleasure
Where indeed 🙂
” I have always aspired to be a stoic spankee… being a bit of a dancer and flincher…”
You make it sound like a bad thing! I wriggle around all the time. I think it’s kind of expected, no? Maybe good exercise, too!
Stoicism is boring.
I would not say that it was a bad thing A. I have just always admired spankees in videos who are taking it hard but still manage to keep their composure and I aspire to be like them. It is a goal that I have set myself
Thank you for taking part in the March Q n A. I enjoyed your answers!
Thanks for the question Fondles
Some great questions Prefectdt and I enjoyed reading your answers. Thank you for answering my questions. Your answer to KD’s question was interesting and I was blown away by your last answer too.
Thanks for your questions Roz. I’m glad that you enjoyed the post
Thank you for answering. I feel like shrubs and trees are my “gardening Achilles’ heel”. I’m much better with flowers and have learned quite a bit about aquatic plants through experience and trial and error. Your job sounded fascinating, and your current one sounds pretty cool too.
As for Affligem, I use it as my “Intro to Belgian Ale” for people who express an interest. I feel like if you took all the qualities of a good Belgian and averaged them out, you’d end up with Affligen Tripel. I then tell folks that depending on what they liked best, they could pursue that direction with other choices. It’s not exceptional in any particular quality, but perhaps IS exceptional for how well it represents a genre. I’d be curious to see if you feel similarly.
My go to beer that I recommend is Grimbergen’s Fleur de abbey but it seems to be getting hard to find lately KD. I hope that they have not stopped making it.
I’m pretty good with trees and shrubs but ponds and wetlands I only really know in theory but I do have a Hortic friend, living in France, who is a bit of a specialist in the soggy end of the garden
fun to read. Many things I did not know.
It was a fun thing to take part in Red and a first time for me
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