Personally, I think that this type of restraining is where Spankos shine, amongst the general BDSM community. Although, it is not exclusive to the Spanko branch of the kinky tree, it is where you will see it the most. It is of course the art of a Top or Dom(me) utilizing their own body to restrict the movements of the submissive that is receiving their attention. So to start, let’s take a look at the all-time classic…
Leg lock
And the same in motion
And a very interesting variation of the leg lock
There are many other forms of body to body control to explore
A bit exclusive to male submissives
And mostly used with female submissives
Reverse straddling looks highly effective
And again in motion
A leg lock around the neck ensures position stability
Kneeling on a recipient works
As does sitting on them
The last one I have for you is a good, old-fashioned foot on the back
I’m sure that there are other methods that I have missed. Do you know of, or have experienced, any other forms of body to body bondage?
Prefectdt
Interesting positions and ways to restrain. I’m not a big fan of any sort of restraints…makes me a little panicky …… BUT having said that…
There was a time Sir Steve decided to straddle my legs to keep me from wiggling around – it was going along spankingly well when – He hit with a resounding thwack – I brought my legs up and caught him .. mmm… soundly in his “wiggly jiggly bits” ….. he went down like tree………. You could have heard a pin drop in the room of spectators………. (grinning)
He’s never done that since…………
Just reading that made me wince, morningstar. As he has never done that since, I think that he has learnt a useful lesson 🙂
Prefectdt
One of the most effective straddles I’ve experienced…..but only a couple of times….was to be pinned to the bed with the Top straddling, and kind of sitting on, my back with her legs pinning my arms.
I have never had a Top pin my arms with her legs. KD, as I am often hugging a pillow or cushion, if one is available. I have had a Top sitting on my shoulders, though. It was amazing how a relatively petite woman could totally immobilize me in this way. I am no body builder, but I am a decent sized guy who does regular physical work and exercise. It is a good way to hold a guy down
Prefectdt
It seems you covered almost everything …
Never experienced the leg lock around the neck (yet?)
Truth is that I LOVE restraints …
Thank you Prefectdt .
I want to try that one too, Courandair 🙂 It is a case of finding a Top who does not find this intimidating
Prefectdt
Lots of fun photos and gifs, to stimulate the imagination. I rarely get to have any say in how except do you want me on the bed with my bottom raised, or OTK!
bottoms up
Red
Sometimes it is fun to do what you are told, Red 🙂
Prefectdt
Interesting topic Prefectdt, I have experienced the leg lock, hand or foot on the back and there’s something about the hair pull. Also hand over mouth or throat (no, not quite choking).
Hugs
Roz
I haven’t got enough hair on my head left to pull Roz, so I have to rely on memories for that 🙂 I have never done the hand over mouth and throat, I am not too sure about. But whatever floats your boat 🙂
Prefectdt