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LOOKING TO BUY A NEW CAGE, HAVE YOU ANY ADVICE

This Is The Cage I Have Now

I have had this little beasty, for more time than I would care to remember. When I got it, it was a pricey, high-end model. You can pick up ones like this pretty cheap now. Although it is still a good, sturdy piece of kit that does the job well. I am not into chastity and denial and except for one occasion, have never worn this for more than a few hours. But in the past it has helped me get play dates with fellow amateurs, which might not have happened otherwise. Having met a potential playmate only a few times, often they can feel a bit nervous about going somewhere private with someone they do not know well enough to trust yet. Throwing this into the mix and the other party knowing that I am rendered harmless to them, indeed reliant on them, to release me has been a deal maker.

So What Is The Problem?

A small problem, is that the pins marked A, in the photo, fit into the sockets marked B. These can be very painful skin pinchers and are difficult to line up. The big problem, though, is that the ring, C, is fixed. I am pretty average in the porcelain pointer department, but my two veg are a little larger than normal. The fixed ring, on this, is 50 mm and is the largest available for this model. It has always been a struggle getting it on, but trying it recently, after not using this for some years, It was somewhat painful to get things to fit (I am sure they are getting bigger, as I age) and it is not hard to imagine that this might be a problem in a pressure on situation. The good feature, that I would like to keep the same, is the small padlock, marked D. These are easily available and some women like to bring their own, to make sure that I do not have a spare key.

The Solutions

I want to get a model with a hinged ring, similar to the ones above, but with no pins and sockets.

This Is The One That I Am Considering

A shop, not too far away from me, is selling this model. It has a hinged ring, no pins and sockets and is considerable lighter, than the one I have now. The weight of my current cage can be an issue, after a couple of hours. I really like the way that this looks, too.

I have only ever owned one Cock Cage, in my life. So if anyone with more experience than me has an opinion on the model above, or recommendations for something else, I would gladly like to hear what you have to say.

All advice welcome

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BLOG CALENDAR – THE DECEMBER PAGE – AND SOME BAD ADVICE REVISITED

The Blog Calendar For December

Once more, the year has rolled around and it is time to get jolly again. And with the two years that we have had, some jolly would be jolly welcome. I got a bit tired of all those pictures of someone in a Santa suit spanking someone on the naughty list and thought that this illustration would be better for brightening up the Yuletide period. I wonder what his plans are, for that Champagne bottle? 🙂

Bad Advice Revisited

I was looking through some archives of this blog and stumbled upon a post from 10 years ago, that I had totally forgotten about. Reading it tickled me pink, so I thought that I would let you viewers have another chance to have a look at it

The Bad Advice

An experienced older woman is telling a teenage lad how best to go and chat up a girl, that he does not know, in a pub (that’s a bar for you lot across the Atlantic) and tells him something along the line of “Just walk up to her, start talking and be totally honest.”. This had me in fits of laughter because I thought of the reaction of a lass, to myself at 18 or 19 being TOTALLY HONEST during a chat up attempt. The reaction?

She would have had an expression something like this

Because honest me would have been saying this……

“Hi. I’ve been eying you up from over there and have found that the combination of the way that your face, bottom, legs and other physical attributes are so pleasing to me, they make me want to insert my erect penis into your vagina and/or any other bodily orifice that you possess and might be willing to make available for my use. So firstly, I would like to ascertain whether or not you already have a partner, or at least if that partner is capable of significantly causing me great physical harm. If you do not have such a partner, would you like to join me in partaking in the consumption of alcoholic beverages to the point where 1/ you might be more willing to accept my advances on your person and 2/ I have built up enough Dutch courage to make such an advance on your good self.”

And I don’t think that many other 18 or 19-year-old lads would have been saying anything different, if they were being TOTALLY HONEST, that is 🙂

All in all it is one of the worst bits of advice that I have ever heard handed out, unless the woman was deliberately trying to get the lad spanked

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SLIPPERS AND RULERS, TIPS AND THOUGHTS FROM PANDORA BLAKE

Here are two informative and interesting videos from Pandora Blake on two often used spanking implements

The School Slipper Or Plimsoll

The Wooden Ruler

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THE SUNDAY SWISHING – AND LAST CHANCE FOR VACCINATION IN FLANDERS

This Was Not The Horse Riding Lesson That She Expected

Get Your First Coronavirus Shot By The 10th Of September

The COVID-19 vaccination centres, in Flanders, are closing on the 15th of October. Therefore, if you are living in Flemish Belgium, you must book in for your first vaccination shot before the 10th of September, if you wish to use one of these centres. You can read more about this in the following link

FLEMISH VACCINATION CENTRES ARE CLOSING

I have no idea what the procedure would be for getting vaccinated after this date, but having been vaccinated in my local centre, I can attest to it being a simple and easy procedure. I would recommend using your local vaccination centre in Flanders, whilst the option is still available

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A FUN VIDEO AND AN EDUCATIONAL VIDEO

I thought that it might be nice to kick off the weekend with some spanking viewing material

The Fun Video

Here a nice young lady decided that it would be fun to prank spank her boyfriend. This guy is such a wimp about it 🙂

The Educational Video

OK, class, settle down. You have had your fun, now it’s time to learn something.

Seriously, this is a very good explanation of the spanking zone of a submissive’s bottom. It is a comprehensive guide to the best places to spank a posterior, from Princess Kelley May. It is worth watching, for any spanko, but it will be information that is especially useful to any inexperienced Top or Dom(me), that you might know

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JUST A GOOD SPANKING – JOLLY HOCKEY STICKS – AND ASK A DOCTOR

I thought that it would be nice to kick of the weekend with some interesting video content

This Is A Great Spanking Scene

This is from some mainstream series or film, I have no idea which one. It just blew me away. OK it is not like a real life spanking scene but you will kind of wish real life was more like this

Those Jolly Hockey Sticks Are Alright Now

Hot, 20 something dancers, in school uniform, stepping it up to some amazing 70’s music. What could possibly go wrong?

It’s strange to think that all those ladies are probably in their 60s now

Ask a Doctor

I was going to post a video from Jillian Keenan, who interviewed a kink friendly doctor about some medical issues that may be of interest to most of us. But All Things Spanking beat me too it, so I will give you a link to that post

JILLIAN KEENAN ASKS A DOCTOR AT ALL THINGS SPANKING

Or you can look for it at Ms Keenan’s YouTube channel

JILLIAN KEENAN ON YOUTUBE

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