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BDSM ESCAPE ROOM!

Black Cat BDSM Escape Room In Poland

I have never done an Escape room, but surfing the ‘net, one popped up that looked interesting. You can see more information about it in the following link.

BLACK CAT BDSM ESCAPE ROOM WARSAW

Apparently the theme goes like this. You are a group of beginner detectives at an agency. Your first “mission” revolves around the most usual type of problem – unfaithfulness and blackmail.

A certain Mr. Jacek pays a visit to your agency. He’s a well-earning manager, a happy father and husband. However, he is not that innocent.

He has been secretly attending the services of a dominatrix, whose ad he stumbled upon on a website. One thing led to another, and he happened to visit her multiple times last year. However, the mistress apparently didn’t have any good intentions, which only meant trouble for the poor manager.

He is being blackmailed and the task is to break into the BDSM dungeon and find the material being used in the attempted extortion.

This all sounded like a lot of fun to me, but I thought it a pity that this place was only available in Poland. But then I found these videos.

Boston BDSM Based Escape Room

And A SAW Themed BDSM Escape Room, I Don’t Know Where

It is nice to know that the kinky community is being so well catered for, in the Escape Room industry 🙂

Note – This is a not for profit blog, no sponsorship, goods or services were received for informing you about these Escape Rooms. I just posted this for fun.

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DOMINATING THE STARS – AND DID YOU ORDER A DOMINATRIX?

Something Serious – Dominating A List Stars

I love this TV interview. It is of a Dominatrix who had the opportunity to play with some of the famous, but the presenters did not over play the “Titillation” card. So, he wanted to be led around with a lead attached to a piercing on his…

And Something Fun – Did You Order A Dominatrix

Part One

Part Two

I hope that helped to kick off your weekend 🙂

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COOL CLEAR KINKY WATER

Hot And Wet

It is hot in Belgium, at the moment, damn hot. This week, I have been getting up at stupid O’ Clock in the morning, to go to work early, so that we can finish before the afternoon sun kicks the heat up to OMG Celsius. As a result, I am dog-tired and all I can think about is getting in, on or by cool water. Beach, river, pool, bathtub, I don’t care. So, let’s see if that desire can be imagined, but with a kinky tilt to it.

That should give satisfaction to a wide range of tastes

🙂

Time to go now

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HOW TO BUILD A SEX ROOM

A New Netflix Series With Some Kinky Twists

How To Build A Sex Room, is a new Netflix series. I am not going to pretend that I have seen it all, but from the episodes that I have seen, have been fun and entertaining.

The Series Trailer

Post update – This video was not age restricted when I scheduled this post. You can see it directly, without signing in to YouTube, by going to the Netflix official webpage for this show, that is reachable through a link at the end of this post.

The series revolves around Melanie Rose, an ex actor, who has been practising interior design, for about 20 years.

And she has found a talent for decorating the most interesting rooms in houses. This series follows her, as she designs fun play places for couples.

An Interview With Melanie Rose

Not all the rooms involve, bondage and floggers, although this is entertaining too, giving an insight into varying people, with varying tastes and approaches to the physical side of their relationships.

And the varying items that might include.

Being a Spanko does tend to make me enjoy the episodes with spanking play and BDSM in mind

Even seeing one couple being encouraged to further investigate the kinky play, that they had already started experimenting with themselves.

Whilst another couple was helped to find new ways of exploring the vanilla side of their intimacy.

I had planned to finish the series and then do a review of it. But I realized that with my normal TV diet consisting of Drama, Comedy and History documentaries, I had very little to compare this to. Normally, I never watch reality makeover programs. Which in itself is an endorsement of this series, as it has taken me outside my normal viewing comfort zone and I am still enjoying it.

It has also given me a few extra ideas to include, should I ever have the opportunity to build my fantasy play room 🙂

A few links to sites related to this show

THE OFFICIAL NETFLIX SHOW SITE

THE WEBSITE OF MELANIE ROSE

A REVIEW OF THE SERIES FROM A PROPER JOURNALIST

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NEW LAWS FOR SEX WORKERS IN BELGIUM

Finally The Law has Changed

The Belgian National Parliament, agreed on new laws for those involved in sex work in Belgium, on the 17th of March and they became active on the 1st of June 2022.

Why Do I Care About This

I do not pay for, what I consider, sexual services but I do on occasions employ the skills of professional Dommes and Disciplinarians and they come under the classification of sex workers. Some of them do offer sexual services, I do not seek that part of their services, they are offered but are not compulsory. Many only offer BDSM services.

The Situation Before

It was technically legal to participate in paid for sexual services in Belgium, both for the provider and the client. However, this law was overly simple and has a clause to stop a third party from profiting from this transaction. This was designed to penalize pimps and people traffickers and I agree with their activities being restricted or hopefully stopped. BUT, and it is a big but, this law was badly written and can be interpreted that anyone taking money earned from sex work can be prosecuted. For example, if a sex worker uses his or her hard-earned cash to buy a loaf of bread, then the bakery that sells that bread can be prosecuted for profiting from the earnings of sex work.

And Then There Were Protests

This left Belgian sex workers in a grey area of being neither officially employed nor unemployed or self-employed, although they are still expected to pay taxes on their earnings and I believe that most of them do. During the time of COVID-19 restrictions, most sex workers were unable to make a living, but were not entitled to government support and financial aid as other taxpayers were. This caused protests and highlighted the issue. And so finally a new set of laws was agreed and are now in place.

As Of 1st June 2022 The New Laws Are…

A law passed in March by the Belgian parliament came into force in June, allowing sex workers to live legally, decriminalizing their work, and awarding them rights in terms of status, social protection, and health, etc. These provisions were sought by federal Justice Minister Vincent Van Quickenborne, a Flemish liberal. They will make Belgium the first European country to adopt such measures, only the second in the world after New Zealand. In the future, sex workers (95% of whom are women) will have the same rights as other self-employed workers, including social security, unemployment, access to healthcare, maternity leave, etc. Additionally, all third parties who assist their work will no longer be prosecuted, except in cases of abnormal profit.

Until now, any banker, accountant, insurer, legal adviser or even web designer who “assisted” a sex worker could be considered the perpetrator of a crime, as were the owners of properties that sex workers used for their business. In the future, property owners will no longer be on the wrong side of the law, unless they make excessive profits by demanding higher rents than normal, as is frequently the case.

AND THAT IS THE NEW SITUATION IN BELGIUM

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SOME CHRISTMAS ROLE-PLAY – AND A CREEPY, SCARY STORY FOR CHRISTMAS EVE

A Christmas Role-Play Video

Role-play, in your imagination, it is always perfectly scripted and goes off like a big budget movie. In real life, it is more likely to go like this. 🙂

A Scary Story For Christmas Eve

Whilst growing up, it was a tradition in my family, as in many families in the UK, to watch a scary movie on Christmas Eve. This one is truly both scary, creepy and involves some spanking and bondage. WARNING! If your idea of a scary movie is The Muppets Christmas Carol, do not watch this. It is not for the easily shocked.

Sleep tight, boys and girls, it will be Christmas in the morning

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