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NEW LAWS FOR SEX WORKERS IN BELGIUM

Finally The Law has Changed

The Belgian National Parliament, agreed on new laws for those involved in sex work in Belgium, on the 17th of March and they became active on the 1st of June 2022.

Why Do I Care About This

I do not pay for, what I consider, sexual services but I do on occasions employ the skills of professional Dommes and Disciplinarians and they come under the classification of sex workers. Some of them do offer sexual services, I do not seek that part of their services, they are offered but are not compulsory. Many only offer BDSM services.

The Situation Before

It was technically legal to participate in paid for sexual services in Belgium, both for the provider and the client. However, this law was overly simple and has a clause to stop a third party from profiting from this transaction. This was designed to penalize pimps and people traffickers and I agree with their activities being restricted or hopefully stopped. BUT, and it is a big but, this law was badly written and can be interpreted that anyone taking money earned from sex work can be prosecuted. For example, if a sex worker uses his or her hard-earned cash to buy a loaf of bread, then the bakery that sells that bread can be prosecuted for profiting from the earnings of sex work.

And Then There Were Protests

This left Belgian sex workers in a grey area of being neither officially employed nor unemployed or self-employed, although they are still expected to pay taxes on their earnings and I believe that most of them do. During the time of COVID-19 restrictions, most sex workers were unable to make a living, but were not entitled to government support and financial aid as other taxpayers were. This caused protests and highlighted the issue. And so finally a new set of laws was agreed and are now in place.

As Of 1st June 2022 The New Laws Are…

A law passed in March by the Belgian parliament came into force in June, allowing sex workers to live legally, decriminalizing their work, and awarding them rights in terms of status, social protection, and health, etc. These provisions were sought by federal Justice Minister Vincent Van Quickenborne, a Flemish liberal. They will make Belgium the first European country to adopt such measures, only the second in the world after New Zealand. In the future, sex workers (95% of whom are women) will have the same rights as other self-employed workers, including social security, unemployment, access to healthcare, maternity leave, etc. Additionally, all third parties who assist their work will no longer be prosecuted, except in cases of abnormal profit.

Until now, any banker, accountant, insurer, legal adviser or even web designer who “assisted” a sex worker could be considered the perpetrator of a crime, as were the owners of properties that sex workers used for their business. In the future, property owners will no longer be on the wrong side of the law, unless they make excessive profits by demanding higher rents than normal, as is frequently the case.

AND THAT IS THE NEW SITUATION IN BELGIUM

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SOME CHRISTMAS ROLE-PLAY – AND A CREEPY, SCARY STORY FOR CHRISTMAS EVE

A Christmas Role-Play Video

Role-play, in your imagination, it is always perfectly scripted and goes off like a big budget movie. In real life, it is more likely to go like this. πŸ™‚

A Scary Story For Christmas Eve

Whilst growing up, it was a tradition in my family, as in many families in the UK, to watch a scary movie on Christmas Eve. This one is truly both scary, creepy and involves some spanking and bondage. WARNING! If your idea of a scary movie is The Muppets Christmas Carol, do not watch this. It is not for the easily shocked.

Sleep tight, boys and girls, it will be Christmas in the morning

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SPANKING ROUND THE HOUSE – THE BATHROOM – PART TWO

Welcome to another in this series of posts. Spankos very often practice their art in a domestic situation, utilizing various locations in their homes and often their everyday furniture as spanking benches or supports. In this edition of this image based exploration of spanking domesticity, let us take a look at……

The Bathroom – Part Two

As promised, this is part two of this post and we will start by taking a look at….

Girls In The Shower

Well of course, any group of females, taking a shower together are obviously going to indulge in some spanking fun. Just ask any heterosexual male fantasist and they will confirm that πŸ™‚

And how could they do that more appropriately than with some towel flicking?

Earning A Spanking In The Bathroom

Easy, just make sure that you are caught in a situation like this

And We Must Take A Look At Alternative Bathroom Punishments

Getting colonic

With a ready supply of water, it is easy to get a submissives attention with an enema

Cleaning duty

Having to clean the bathroom after that, should keep any slave in line. Especially if they have to use their own toothbrush to do it

Mouth soaping

There are no spankees in this world who do not have to be dealt with, after uttering a dirty word

Getting cold in there

With an ice bath

Or a chastising, cold shower

And I Think That Concludes Our Look At Bathroom Punishment Time

I mean, apart from peeing, pooping, getting clean and being punished, whatever else could anyone get up to in the bathroom?

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SPANKING ROUND THE HOUSE – THE BATHROOM – PART ONE

Welcome to another in this series of posts. Spankos very often practice their art in a domestic situation, utilizing various locations in their homes and often their everyday furniture as spanking benches or supports. In this edition of this image based exploration of spanking domesticity, let us take a look at……

The Bathroom – Part One

I found so many images and GIFs for this room that it will come in two posts. The follow-up on Friday 26th of November

And from the amount of material that I found for this room, it is obviously a popular place to get spanked in. Every house has a bathroom (I hope), and the question must be asked. Is there a better place to hear the ouches and screams echo off the tiles? And as the GIF above illustrates, it is where you will find the bath brushes

Alternative Uses For The Throne

The bathroom always has a handy seat available for OTK play

Private Playroom

This is the one room in any house that will always have a lock or a bolt on the door. Perfect, if you do not want any of the other dinner party guests disturbing you

Corner Time

Some baths look like they were designed to provide a space for post spanking reflections

Increase The Pain Level

As all of us who know can tell you, spanks on a wet bottom, freshly hauled out of the bath, hurt a lot more than they do on a dry posterior

Take A Good Look

Nearly all bathrooms have a large mirror. A spankee can be made to look at the contortions the spanking is making their face go through. And it is also useful for a spankee that wants to examine the state of their rear end, after the spanking

BDSMers Too

With plenty of hooks and wracks around, this room is great for those that want to indulge in more mainstream BDSM activities

But I think that I will safeword on that last one

When Alone

This room provides an opportunity for Brats, like me, to indulge in a little art work πŸ™‚

Part two on Friday 26th November

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BDSM FACING IT

Disclaimer

Before I start this post, I would just like to state that this is not an insulting mickey take of our more mainstream BDSM cousins. I am sure that I too make some pretty extreme faces, when I am playing, especially if a large American style paddle is involved. It is more of a hats off, to those committed enough to bring their own faces into play

Wonderfully Contorted Faces Of BDSM

Perusing search results, often brings up results of BDSM players who, either by mechanical means or as a result of their reactions to the type of play that they are engaging in, end up with some very interesting facial expressions. I thought that I would share some of my findings here

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A CUTE SPANKING VIDEO – A THOUGHT PROVOKING BDSM VIDEO – AND A VANILLA VIDEO, JUST FOR LAUGHS

Spanking Yogi Bear

I used to watch Yogi Bear cartoons religiously, in the 70s, when I was a child. But I never saw this one back then, I think that I would have remembered it otherwise

Careful With That Cage

This video might not be to everyone’s taste, it is 15 minutes long, in German and has English subtitles. I liked it though, for two reasons

1/ It illustrates how a D/s dynamic will not work if both parties are not in full agreement, have not properly discussed the situation that they are going to try and live in and have not thought through how they are going to make it work

2/ The idea of playing kinky games in an apartment, spinning round on a giant Ferris wheel tickles me pink πŸ™‚

Game Of Phones

This isn’t kinky at all, but it is so funny

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