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MISTRESS CELA GAVE ME A DAMN GOOD SPANKING – AND A LITTLE ON POST SPANKING BUTT RECOVERY

Hot And Harsh

It is Tuesday evening, as I type this and I have returned from my short trip away. Whilst away, I did receive a very memorable spanking from the wonderfully strict person that you see in the photograph above. She has a sort of information page that you can see through the following link.

MEESTERES CELA

I have been spanked by her before and returned to look for her, several times, for another spanking, as the first one had been so memorable. She was sadly not there as she had returned to her home country and trained in a vanilla skill (I did not obtain permission to tell you what that is) and it is nice to know that she has other career options to pursue, if she so chooses. But luckily for me, has returned to Belgium. And a serious as well as a very enjoyable spanking she gave me too. Three days later, my buttocks are still a little tender and definitely ouchy, if I poke them.

What With?

Her nice boot paddle came into play, but not until after I had been hand spanked. The hand spanking and some buttock massaging also continued between the use of toys.

She also caned me, with two canes, as well as giving me a taste of a cane birch bundle, part of which broke on my bum 🙂 A wrapped fibreglass rod (I think) and a small flogger also came into play.

She also spanked me with some toys that I took along.

My new Rudis

My favourite spanking belt

And some short Hazel (Corylus avellana) switches, That I freshly cut from a coppiced Hazel tree, that I have in my back garden.

If you want to see more on these, you can scroll through my list of Pevertables posts, through the following link.

MY PERVERTABLES POSTS

I especially enjoyed getting belted by Cela. Although I found my last whooping with this belt highly gratifying, it was not until it was in the hands of a knowledgable and experienced Top, that I could experience its full potential.

If you are a bottom or sub who enjoys a spanking from a highly competent professional Top or Domme and find yourself in Antwerp, I highly recommend that you seek out the services of Mistress Cela. But be honest with her about your experience level, if you ask for a hard spanking, it will be hard, if you have not been spanked that much, tell her that and give her a chance to find your tolerance level.

A Picture Of My Ass, Spanked By Cela And Of Its Recovery

Mistress Cela was kind enough to take the picture above, of my freshly spanked rear end. She also enquired about how long I would expect to show marks from this type of spanking. So for the past three days I have taken a picture of my bottom and will send her a link to this post, so that she can see for her self. All images were taken between 4 and 6 O’ clock, in the evening.

The day after Cela spanked me

Two days after my spanking

Three days after my spanking

I think that by day four or five, I will have a bottom that looks like it has returned to normal. But I can feel that the Deep Muscle Trauma is going to last longer than that. Which makes me happy 🙂

Thank You, Mistress Cela For Such A Wonderful Memory

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WHAT HAVE THE ROMANS EVER DONE FOR US?

Well, They Sold Me A Rudis

A Roman rudis was a wooden sword, given to gladiators when they had gained their freedom. This is not a real rudis, but more of a child’s toy, although a very well-made one. And now it is my newest pervertable 🙂

I got this at the Gallo-Romeins (Celtic-Roman) weekend event that was held in the small Flemish town of Wervik, that is situated on the border with France, during the first weekend of October. It was a very enjoyable event that is held there every two years. With re-enactments of Celtic and Roman life and warfare. Along with people showing the skills of the craftsmanship, in making artefacts. This is where I purchased my newest pervertable, for the princely sum of 11 Euros. Initially I thought that it would make an excellent OTK paddle, but on closer inspection, once I was home, judged it to be sturdy enough to be used for harder, stand up paddling, as a light to medium paddle. I gave the back of my sofa a few hard whacks with it (bad sofa, don’t do it again) and found that it stood up to serious usage well. I won’t write about it’s size. You can check out the photos below for that. The tape measure shows centimetres and inches.

I think that the blade is made of Beech wood. Not sure what the handle is made of, but it is the same colour as the blade. I tried a few self spanking swats and although I don’t think that it will be nearly as painful as traditional American style paddle, it does have a very stingy punch and was very easy to self spank with, due to its size and shape. There are no splinters, but I might take some fine glasspaper to the blade, to get it really smooth. I might varnish the handle too, to make it easier to clean, between spankers. I can’t wait to try this in a spanking session 🙂

And What Did The Celts Do For Me?

They sold me some Mead.

Mead is wine made from honey. And this mead is delicious, especially for those who have a sweet tooth.

Was There Anything Else To Interest The Perverted?

For the more BDSMy among us, there was an opportunity to have a short experience of being an Oar Slave, on a replica Roman river boat.

And that all leaves me dreaming of a Roman style play session, like the one below, except she can swing the rudis and I can be on the receiving end 🙂

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TUESDAY’S TANTALIZING TUSHY

Today Is So Hot, It Is Impossible To Get Naked Enough

The image above was found at

OUR TRUE BOTTOM WARMING EXPERIENCES

It is supposed to be pushing 40 Celsius today, in Belgium

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HOW TO BUILD A SPANKING CHAPEL – OR A GREAT ROOM THAT WAS AT THE CHÂTEAUX OF THE PRINCE’S OF CHIMAY

The Surprising Little Church At The Châteaux In Chimay

Whilst on my recent travels, there was an opportunity to visit the princely castle of Chimay. Which is in a beautiful little town in Wallonia of the same name, famous for its beer, cheese and being the last non-royal principality of Belgium. The castle was gutted by fire in 1935, losing much of its Baroque furniture and interior decoration. Over the last few decades, some rooms have been restored to their former glory, including…

The Chapel

Which is a very pretty place for Catholic worship. But the more that I looked around, the more that images like…

This

Started to flash into my imagination. It became clear to me that, some hundreds of years ago, someone had said, to a baroque interior designer, “Build Me A Spanking Church”.

The Prayer Kneelers

The first of these, that I noticed, were these

Excellent for kneeling on to receive a back flogging or bending over the other way for a holy birching. Just a nice height for either of these activities and comfortably padded…

Unlike Some Others That I have Seen

But when I turned around…

There Were Some Even Better Ones

That were far more sturdy, solid and unlikely to move around during a severe punishment of a sinner, under the torment of a holy lash. And even more…

One For Chastising A Pair Of Sinners At The Same Time

And then I noticed the general seating of the chapel which were just the right size, height and shape to be…

Padded Birching Benches

Which could easily be used…

Like This

Or This

I suppose you have to have a spankos mindset to see what the designer had in mind, when furnishing this Chapel. But there are some spiritual spankos out there who need a friendly place to pray and play, sometimes. Perhaps this is the place for them.

🙂

This post was inspired by the Netflix series

HOW TO BUILD A SEX ROOM

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NEW LAWS FOR SEX WORKERS IN BELGIUM

Finally The Law has Changed

The Belgian National Parliament, agreed on new laws for those involved in sex work in Belgium, on the 17th of March and they became active on the 1st of June 2022.

Why Do I Care About This

I do not pay for, what I consider, sexual services but I do on occasions employ the skills of professional Dommes and Disciplinarians and they come under the classification of sex workers. Some of them do offer sexual services, I do not seek that part of their services, they are offered but are not compulsory. Many only offer BDSM services.

The Situation Before

It was technically legal to participate in paid for sexual services in Belgium, both for the provider and the client. However, this law was overly simple and has a clause to stop a third party from profiting from this transaction. This was designed to penalize pimps and people traffickers and I agree with their activities being restricted or hopefully stopped. BUT, and it is a big but, this law was badly written and can be interpreted that anyone taking money earned from sex work can be prosecuted. For example, if a sex worker uses his or her hard-earned cash to buy a loaf of bread, then the bakery that sells that bread can be prosecuted for profiting from the earnings of sex work.

And Then There Were Protests

This left Belgian sex workers in a grey area of being neither officially employed nor unemployed or self-employed, although they are still expected to pay taxes on their earnings and I believe that most of them do. During the time of COVID-19 restrictions, most sex workers were unable to make a living, but were not entitled to government support and financial aid as other taxpayers were. This caused protests and highlighted the issue. And so finally a new set of laws was agreed and are now in place.

As Of 1st June 2022 The New Laws Are…

A law passed in March by the Belgian parliament came into force in June, allowing sex workers to live legally, decriminalizing their work, and awarding them rights in terms of status, social protection, and health, etc. These provisions were sought by federal Justice Minister Vincent Van Quickenborne, a Flemish liberal. They will make Belgium the first European country to adopt such measures, only the second in the world after New Zealand. In the future, sex workers (95% of whom are women) will have the same rights as other self-employed workers, including social security, unemployment, access to healthcare, maternity leave, etc. Additionally, all third parties who assist their work will no longer be prosecuted, except in cases of abnormal profit.

Until now, any banker, accountant, insurer, legal adviser or even web designer who “assisted” a sex worker could be considered the perpetrator of a crime, as were the owners of properties that sex workers used for their business. In the future, property owners will no longer be on the wrong side of the law, unless they make excessive profits by demanding higher rents than normal, as is frequently the case.

AND THAT IS THE NEW SITUATION IN BELGIUM

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THE SUNDAY SWISHING – AND SPECTRUM IS YELLOW

That’s Why She Wanted All Those Twigs

Coronavirus Belgium Update

The numbers here are good and getting better. The health system coped well with the last wave of infections, which is mostly the less harmful Omicron version of the virus now. As a result, as of Monday, 7th of March 2022, restrictions are downgraded to, what is now called, level yellow. This means that as of Monday, nearly all restrictions will end, except for the wearing of face masks on public transport and in Hospitals and other medical facilities. More detail in the following links.

RECENT COVID-19 FIGURES FOR BELGIUM

CODE YELLOW LEVEL RESTRICTIONS

I really hope that this is the beginning of the end, this time. But I can’t help getting that nagging feeling that we have been here before.

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