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LOOKING TO BUY A NEW CAGE, HAVE YOU ANY ADVICE

This Is The Cage I Have Now

I have had this little beasty, for more time than I would care to remember. When I got it, it was a pricey, high-end model. You can pick up ones like this pretty cheap now. Although it is still a good, sturdy piece of kit that does the job well. I am not into chastity and denial and except for one occasion, have never worn this for more than a few hours. But in the past it has helped me get play dates with fellow amateurs, which might not have happened otherwise. Having met a potential playmate only a few times, often they can feel a bit nervous about going somewhere private with someone they do not know well enough to trust yet. Throwing this into the mix and the other party knowing that I am rendered harmless to them, indeed reliant on them, to release me has been a deal maker.

So What Is The Problem?

A small problem, is that the pins marked A, in the photo, fit into the sockets marked B. These can be very painful skin pinchers and are difficult to line up. The big problem, though, is that the ring, C, is fixed. I am pretty average in the porcelain pointer department, but my two veg are a little larger than normal. The fixed ring, on this, is 50 mm and is the largest available for this model. It has always been a struggle getting it on, but trying it recently, after not using this for some years, It was somewhat painful to get things to fit (I am sure they are getting bigger, as I age) and it is not hard to imagine that this might be a problem in a pressure on situation. The good feature, that I would like to keep the same, is the small padlock, marked D. These are easily available and some women like to bring their own, to make sure that I do not have a spare key.

The Solutions

I want to get a model with a hinged ring, similar to the ones above, but with no pins and sockets.

This Is The One That I Am Considering

A shop, not too far away from me, is selling this model. It has a hinged ring, no pins and sockets and is considerable lighter, than the one I have now. The weight of my current cage can be an issue, after a couple of hours. I really like the way that this looks, too.

I have only ever owned one Cock Cage, in my life. So if anyone with more experience than me has an opinion on the model above, or recommendations for something else, I would gladly like to hear what you have to say.

All advice welcome

Prefectdt

SOME CHRISTMAS ROLE-PLAY – AND A CREEPY, SCARY STORY FOR CHRISTMAS EVE

A Christmas Role-Play Video

Role-play, in your imagination, it is always perfectly scripted and goes off like a big budget movie. In real life, it is more likely to go like this. 🙂

A Scary Story For Christmas Eve

Whilst growing up, it was a tradition in my family, as in many families in the UK, to watch a scary movie on Christmas Eve. This one is truly both scary, creepy and involves some spanking and bondage. WARNING! If your idea of a scary movie is The Muppets Christmas Carol, do not watch this. It is not for the easily shocked.

Sleep tight, boys and girls, it will be Christmas in the morning

Prefectdt

BONDAGE WITHOUT ROPES OR RESTRAINTS

Personally, I think that this type of restraining is where Spankos shine, amongst the general BDSM community. Although, it is not exclusive to the Spanko branch of the kinky tree, it is where you will see it the most. It is of course the art of a Top or Dom(me) utilizing their own body to restrict the movements of the submissive that is receiving their attention. So to start, let’s take a look at the all-time classic…

Leg lock

And the same in motion

And a very interesting variation of the leg lock

There are many other forms of body to body control to explore

A bit exclusive to male submissives

And mostly used with female submissives

Reverse straddling looks highly effective

And again in motion

A leg lock around the neck ensures position stability

Kneeling on a recipient works

As does sitting on them

The last one I have for you is a good, old-fashioned foot on the back

I’m sure that there are other methods that I have missed. Do you know of, or have experienced, any other forms of body to body bondage?

Prefectdt

BDSM, BICYCLE HELMETS AND ALICE LEVINE

Alice Levine In BDSM Dungeon Shoot

Meet Alice Levine, UK Radio and TV presenter, who is currently appearing in a TV series exploring alternative sexual lifestyles and practices. If you live in the UK or can fool the internet into thinking that you do, you can watch some episodes of this series through the link below

SEX ACTUALLY WITH ALICE LEVINE

BDSM And Bicycle Helmets

Apparently the latest safe sex device for a BDSM dungeon visit is a bicycle helmet, that is of course for a dungeon with a very low ceiling. The helmets are a safety feature, unlike the restraints and ball gags 🙂 It was necessary for Ms Levine to take this precaution when filming a couple doing a bondage shoot in the aforementioned dungeon

The sharp-eyed among you may have recognized the couple involved in the bondage play. They are, of course, Hywel Philips and Joselyn Brook-Hamilton (AKA Ariel Anderson or Amelia Jane Rutherford). They might be more recognizable in this image

You can find out more about their work through these two links

ARIEL’S TWILIGHT YEARS

and

HYWEL PHILLIP’S ELEGANCE STUDIOS

I hope to get the chance to see this series but until then, I did find a promo, snippet video on YouTube. You might have to log into your Google account to view this, as YouTube have age protected it

I also found a couple of newspaper articles about this series and episode. If you wish to see them, follow the links below

THE METRO, ALICE LEVINE PRACTISING SAFE SEX WITH A BICYCLE HELMET

THE SUN, ALICE LEVINE IN A BDSM DUNGEON

Other episodes in the series explore different sexual desires and practises

Prefectdt

DAVE ANNIS BONDAGE FUNNIES

The Amusing Art Of Dave Annis

A little while ago, I started stumbling upon the images created by Dave Annis. His artwork is well drawn and usually very amusing. What I found is mostly related to bondage. I collected a few from around the internet and thought that you the viewer might be entertained by them

Mr Annis does have a paid members website. The link is below

DAVE ANNIS BONDAGE ART

Please note that this is a not for profit blog. No money or other exchanges were received by myself, for providing the above link

Prefectdt

BEER AND SPANKING

A Bad Combination But

There do seem to be some spanking related beers around like this one for a Yuletide celebration

Or even a little Star Wars toasting and roasting beer

And a French language variant

Beer and sex also seems like a bad combination but that does not seem to deter the advertisers

But yes I do want to get some beer glasses like these

And let’s not leave the Bondage community out of this very bad mix

At the end of the day you have to ask yourself “Do I really want to get spanked, tied up or laid by someone in this state?”

Cheers and Bottoms Up to all of you

Prefectdt