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A couple of weeks ago, I came across (not literally) a Twitter feed called Dommes Clothing. There is a link below


Digging a little, in the archives, there appeared a photo series featuring women in their everyday clothing and dressed to thrill. This seemed very interesting and I thought that it would be nice to share some of these images here

Strangely, none of those portrayed seemed any more or less sexually attractive in their dominant get-up than in their everyday clobber

But very different mental switches were thrown, depending on their attire and pose

Also, they all looked far more mature in their dominant guise. And I do mean mature and not older

The different outfits also changed my perception of their self-confidence levels

I wonder if they felt more self-confident, when dressed to oppress?

Whoever came up with the idea should be congratulated for it

This idea is a very clever exercise of how visual presentation effects mental perception

Even when the same person is presented in two different dominant attires

I hope that gave you all food for thought



It is a long time since we had an F/m special, on this blog. So let us enjoy the view of some hot women handing out some serious canings, to some lucky guys

Canes rock my world ๐Ÿ™‚



Note: – I originally intended this to be a still picture only post but there seemed to be far more GIFs about that illustrated the subject of this post

What Are Buttock Mittens?

This is not an official term but one I made up myself, so if anyone has a better name for this please let me know. As a spankee, I do like a hand spanking to be spread around my buttocks and upper thighs. But I have noticed that some spankers like to stick to the same spot on each buttock

This leaves a very distinctive sort of marking on the buttocks

Like a vague, fuzzy imprint of a hand on each buttock

This is the phenomenon that I like to call Buttock Mittens

As I said, I like a hand spanking to be spread around the area of my rear end but I am tempted to ask for this kind of spanking just to see how it looks, on my bottom

Has anyone reading this given or received this type of hand spanking?

It does look more intense than the sort of hand spanking that I am used to but I am always curious about something that I have not tried

I know that I only posted that GIF last week but it is one of the best examples of what I am talking about

All information on this subject will be gratefully received



Or About Pegging To Be More Precise

A post on another blog got me thinking about this. The author, Fondles, informed us about a little anal training that she has been doing, in preparation for some Butt Stuff fun that she is planning. You can read about it via….


I have not been pegged in over a decade but reading this post brought back some fond memories. I have never asked nor will I ever ask to be pegged but I am happy to accommodate a play partner that wishes to take part in some girl in boy fun, if they are prepared to be sensible about it

Don’t turn up wearing something like this

Unless you want to hear me screaming SAFEWORD!!! Repeatedly. I prefer something of more sensible proportions. Something similar to the size of my own appendage seems fair

That’s more like it

What I Like About Pegging

I think that the best thing about letting a woman penetrate you, is that it is me that is giving her the permission to do so. Which is not only a nice change but represents a high level of submission in my mind. Far more than being spanked, which is a lot more fun but does not have that same level of offering trust of subjugation to someone that letting them fulfil their desire to penetrate you does. And that is why I will only take part in pegging when I am asked to, by the other individual involved, as it is my submitting to their desire that clicks the right buttons in my head.


This is fine

If it is the kind of thing that the woman involved wants. I am happy to go along with this

But this is my favourite position

I like to feel the weight of her body on me and her skin against my skin as I feel her moving against my body. Her hot laboured breath on my shoulders and the noise of her efforts close to my ear. It just makes the experience so more personal, especially if she manages to orgasm from the psychology of the event or with a little mechanical help. It makes me feel like I have served to satisfy

I wonder if something like this could be used?

Or would it be too difficult for her to retain during the act. I have only experienced a butterfly vibrator being used under the pelvic harness but that worked well ๐Ÿ™‚

What I Don’t Like about being pegged

Two things. Firstly doing a deep colonic cleanse, I have always found this difficult and it can take me hours to get every thing squeaky clean, sometimes. Secondly having an uncomfortable lump of man-made dildo shoved up where the sun does not shine, although it helps if she is a little rough and makes things a bit painful for me, without causing any damage back there. But I think that it is the second one of these that makes doing this such a significant act of submission for me.

Giving Selfless Gratification To Someone

I have never orgasmed from being pegged and have always refused any offered help to achieve that end, either before or after the event. Although if the female involved reached her high from the event, that makes it perfect for me. Spanking is a lot of fun but it is mostly about the chemical high that it can achieve in my body and mind. Pegging is about achieving the psychological high of getting someone else to the place they want to be whilst giving totally of myself without expecting reward. It is my ultimate act of submissiveness. And that is why I will never be the one asking to do this or have it part of a pay to play.



Just Before The Action Begins

You are standing there and you know that in a few moments the spanking will begin. For me, that gets the butterflies a fluttering in my stomach. I do not try to suppress them but nurture the nervous anticipation that they offer. And a good Top or Dom(me) often finds ways of stirring these butterflies into a frenzied storm of flapping wings, even before the first blow strikes.

A steady parade before you, especially with heels clocking on a hard floor makes you wonder what is in store for you

Giving you that look that makes you want to know what plans for your future are going on behind those eyes

Sometimes a shouted order or sometimes a low whisper in your ear sends your imagination whirring

The flexing of a cane or the sound of it swishing through the air promising a severity to it’s anticipated bite of your flesh

Or even the soft brushing of fingers across your body, reminding you of how tender soft and vulnerable your skin feels at that moment

And now those delicate wings are flapping up a hurricane that will not let you breath without trembling




Longing For The Sweet Harsh Kiss Of The Open Hand

It must be nearly two years now since I last presented my bare buttocks for a hand spanking

For me it did not use to represent the high point of spanking play but absence has made the heart grow fonder

Now I long for the heat of thighs beneath me, the feeling of muscles in motion as the hand is brought crashing down upon tender flesh, over and over in a heavenly nightmare of rapidly repeated impacts, exploding in wonderful pain

To be honest with you I long for the physical, skin to skin touch of any human being right now, pain play related or just normal vanilla contact. But at the top of my list of desires for the human touch, the magnificent submission of being over a woman’s knee and hearing palm striking bottom, holds a high summit

Back in February of this year, I arranged to go for a coffee with a friend in a nearby town. When we met we shook hands. That was the last time that I had physical, skin to skin contact with another human being. Eight months ago

Now I long for skin to skin contact in it’s most gloriously extreme form as someone drives their hand so hard into a buttock, it is as if they are trying to create enough heat to weld the two together

I was lucky enough to get a successful play date back in June, which considering my circumstances combined with the difficulties of the pandemic, leaves me feeling very happy that I had the opportunity to enjoy that this year. But by mutual agreement both of us decided to keep as much distance as is humanly possible whilst in a spanking play situation. We did this with the use of a belt two floggers and a cane. But I have to admit that the interaction lacked somewhat, from not being able to get close up and personal. O! I want a hand spanking so much right now

I guess that the old saying is true “You don’t know what you’ve got till it’s gone”

Let’s hope that this all ends soon and we can all get back to some sort of normality