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Wet And Messy (WAM) Or Sploshing Kink

I first heard of this kink some time ago, when it was mentioned on some other spanking blogs and was a little dismissive about it as a real kink. But having done a little research on it and seen just what extremes it is taken to, I reevaluated and decided that it most definitely is a kink. It is just so messy.

Then a search was made for GIFs on this kink and I thought that I had accidentally typed “Three Stooges GIF” into the search engine.

This fetish revolves about getting a turn on from liberally spreading wet or soggy food stuffs over one or both, or more, consenting players.

Or sometimes just parts of another person.

Or even in their garments.

When I first heard about this, I presumed that something tasty would be lightly dribbled on a relevant body part and then licked off. Now I realize that is the equivalent of that vanilla couple, who indulged in a little fingertip, patty cake spanking once and claimed that they knew about spanking as a fetish. My attitude made me realize, that when it came to sploshing, I could not be more vanilla.

There are clips sites and videos for sale on this subject. Most of them seem to be F/f or M/m

But there seems to be a lot of amateur and semi amateur material from male/female couples and groups.

And it does seem to be a fetish that is enjoyed by the type of people that have a good sense of humour.

I even found some people offering professional sploshing services.


This most definitely is a fully fledged fetish, in its own right. And many people show an interest in practising and viewing this fetish. Would I try this myself? Provisionally, yes, but it would have to be of the desire of the other person involved and at least one of us would have to have had a substantial lottery win. Because we would have to pay for someone else to do the post-coital clean up. There is no way that I am dealing with that kind of mess.

Until then, I will stick to my own version of sploshing




Nik Zula Has Started Posting On His Blog Again

You can find his blog at…


It seemed that the blog of Nik Zula was a thing of the past. But recently, it has sprung to life again. So far, with preliminary sketches of his work, to try and entice people to join his Patreon feed. Why not? It’s nice to be enticed now and then 🙂 His blog will be returning to my main blog roll. I have always liked his tongue in cheek, quirky and sometimes cheekily inappropriate humour, so I thought it would be nice to post some of the work that he has shown us, over the years, in this post.

Once again, you can find his blog through the following link




Spartan Women, The Ideal Spouses

Over the weekend, I listened to a BBC Radio 4 program about the women of Sparta. It was so good I had to hear it twice. It described why Spartan women were my type of Gals. If you want to listen to it, follow the link below.


Unlike many women, in ancient history, they were not expected to be pretty wall flowers, or an extension of their men. But were raised from a young age to be strong and independent leaders. To start with, they exercised and trained to be physically fit and strong. A bit like…

And would take part in many sports, both individual…

and team sports, the same as the boys.

Greek athletes always trained and competed nude, by the way. 🙂 A female Spartan participated in sports including wrestling, long- and short-distance running, horseback riding, hurling the javelin or discus, boxing, and racing.

From the age of 7 they also received a good, academic education

They were also trained in martial arts and combat, from a young age. As their men would spend a lot of time away fighting, they would be the home defence team for their house, town or city and be expected to hold their own in a combat situation.

Spartan women did not normally marry until they were between 18 and 20. Relatively mature, by the standards of that period of history. However, between menstruation and marriage, girls were encouraged to be sexually active, with other girls of their own age.

There were choir clubs, songs and other activities to encourage this. So they came to the marriage bed with a good idea of how they needed to be satisfied.

At home, the Spartan wife would have been in charge of everything, domestic organization, finances, running the family business and everything else of great importance. The Spartan economy revolved around the leadership of its women.

And they did not, as most spouses in the ancient world, spend all their time looking toward the cooking and cleaning. They got their slaves to do that for them.

So in conclusion, Spartan wives were strong, well-educated, powerful women, used to being in a leadership role and they could make that weirdo, hanging around in the park, fear for his life 🙂

This would be so much better than having the Patriarchy. If only history had continued in this vain.





A Bit Of A Different Kinky Post Today

I have a file on my computer, labelled potential post pictures. Some of these images stay in that folder for a long time. I was looking at them and wondering why I kept some of them, realizing that they were the ones that kicked off my imagination. So let us take a look at some of these.

This is just so clever

It would be nice to know who created this, just to see if they are always so imaginatively talented.

Time for some erotic writing

Made me laugh, hope you did too 🙂

This is my type of fantasy scenario

a room full of women at a tutorial on how to use a toy or toys and I am there as a subject used in the practical demonstration. A Psychologist once told me that the thing that people want the most is what they cannot have. Therefore, most women don’t want to be objectified because men are trying to do that to them all the time. On the other hand, men want to be objectified because women hardly ever do that to them. I wonder if that is why I like this fantasy so much. It does not even involve any sexual interaction.

Talking of fantasies…

Why isn’t she real, closer to my age and knocking at my door right now 🙂

Where did they get this stuff?

It is easy to get specialist bondage gear now. But this photo must be around a hundred years old. Where did they buy this kind of gear back then? Did they have to have it specially made? I would have loved to be a fly on the wall, at the local blacksmithery, listening to that conversation.

And this just looks so much fun

Don’t it just make you want to join in

This was a bit of a change from my normal type of post, but this week I am just dog-tired and in a strange mood. It does everyone good to shake things up now and again.



Hopefully We Will Have A Flag That Can Be Waved Like This One Day

What Is This Post About?

Bonnie, of the blog My Bottom Smarts, made a post about having a Spanko flag. You can see the post linked here


I so approve of her idea of a Spanko flag and wholeheartedly support her in that. But I was not too impressed with the flag that she proposed. Which is this one

I had an idea for a Spanko flag myself, many years ago, before I was forced to take a break from blogging, due to the damage that a Thrombosis caused, in my right eye. So the flag and the post never happened. But based on that Idea, I have put together my proposition for a Spanko flag. Please be aware that I do not have the appropriate software to do this and could not find any at such short notice. So this is a very rough and ready version of what I propose, that I cobbled together on Paint.

It does not have the impact in real life that it did in my imagination, but I will tell you the symbolism behind it. It has 12 stripes (2 times 6 of the best) in black and blue to represent the marks that we take pride in. There are three inverted hearts (an old spanko symbol) in red, amber and green to represent Tops, Switches and Bottoms. The colours also represent the “Traffic Light” safe word system to indicate that the play that we take part in is only between consenting adults. I think that my symbolism is good and it could be easily recognized from some distance away, an important factor for any flag. However, it does not match up to what I thought it would be like, in my imagination.

Perhaps someone could improve on one or both of these flags. Or even come up with a better one of their own. It is long past time that we had a universally recognized article to display. This is a debate that is long over due.

Fun With Flags

As an incentive, here are a few ideas of the kind of fun we could have with our own flag, once we have one.

Plus, we really need a flag for the annual Spankos pride marches that we should be having



Amazing F/m images

Having a little nose through the “Archive Blog Roll” on this blog, I popped in to take a look at Red Rump, a blog that fell silent, without explanation, about 7 years ago. You can check it out through the link below.


You used to see his images around a lot and for a reason, they are very good. They tend to be seen less often now. So I thought that I would highlight a few of them in this post, before they totally fade from memory.

The art nearly always featured F/m imagery, I have a feeling that this was what the artist loved the most.

The females, in the pictures, always looked capable and in control. Just how I fantasize my perfect match to be.

But the males depicted were never, weird or wimpy. They gave the impression of being competent, everyday sort of guys. Although, ones who were in need of stern correction.

I even found a portrait of a celebrity spanker.

Often the works showed a good sense of humour.

Let us hope that these works do not fade from view or memory, they are very good. I often wondered if I could walk into a drawing and become part of the action, which one would I like to be in?

Yes, That’s the one 🙂