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SOME RANDOM GIFS – AND SOME BLOG STUFF

Why The Random GIFs?

The reason for the random GIFs is because this post is about the blog rolls and links. Which could be a bit dry and boring. So the GIFS are just some that I liked but have never found an excuse to use in other posts and I thought that they might spice up this post.

You might have noticed that the blog rolls and links have altered, on this blog. If not, then you have not been paying attention and should report to the Head Mistresses’ study for immediate correction 🙂

I have posted this one before, but just love it so much 🙂

New Blogs Linked

Let’s start with some new blogs to be added to the links list “Blogs With An Ouch That I Read”, that you will see in the side column on the right, if you are visiting here on a computer. If you are on your smartphone, you can get to the links by tapping on the menu at the top of the page and going to the Blog And Vlog Roll page. Or follow the link below.

BLOG AND VLOG ROLL

MORNINGSTAR’S LEGACY

This blog has been started by Dae, the daughter of the sadly belated blogger, morningstar.

BUTT STUFF

This is the blog of Jean Marie, who posts fiction and facts about herself and other stuff. This is an extensively posted on blog and I am not going to pretend that I always have time to read every post, but the posts that I have managed to read have always earned a “Like” from me.

SPANKING ARTWORKS

This is the blog of a Web Publisher and collector of mostly historic spanking art and books. The blog can be a bit confusing to navigate, but is well worth the time.

All Blogs On The Blog And Vlog Roll Page Are Now listed In The Blogs With An Ouch That I Read List Too

Those added to the list are…

THE ART OF SARDAX

AU FIL DES JOURS

CONTEMPORARY LIFE

ENZO’S EVERYDAY SPANKING ANNALS

FINDING STRENGTH IN MY SUBMISSION

O AND P SPANKING STORIES

Moving Some Blogs To The Archive Blogs Worth Checking Out List

There are some blogs that are no longer posting, two of them for very sad reasons. These blogs are being moved onto the archive blog roll.

CONSENSUAL SPANKING SECOND EDITION

DEVLIN O’ NEILL’S WEB LOG

THE CONTINUED JOURNEY

SOMEONE’S GONNA GET IT

SPANKED NOT SILENCED

NIK ZULA’S SPANKING ART

Blogs To Be Deleted

Some blogs are just gone or are inaccessible. These links have been removed. They were…

COLLECTED SUBMISSIONS

JAMES STEPHENSON’S BLOG

PUNISHED BRATS BLOG

BISHY’S BLOG

And that concludes the changes to the links on this blog. It all took so much work and time.

Prefectdt

SCOLDING

A Selection Of Scolding GIFs

I have been searching for scolding GIFs, a process that is like pulling your own teeth out, as every search term seems to bring up one or two GIFs based on scolding and then gives you a selection of blow job or anal GIFs. Not sure why this is, perhaps “Scolding” is also a euphemism for other activities and I am just not aware of this other meaning. Anyway, enjoy the GIFs, they took a lot of finding.

I tend to have one of three different reactions to being scolded

1/ This is fantastic and is helping me get into the right mood for getting spanked

2/ Bored now. Wish this was over with, so we can get on with the spanking

3/ I’m finding it hard not to burst out laughing right now

It tends to depend on the acting ability of the person giving the scolding 🙂

Prefectdt

INJURY POST WITH RANDOM KINKY IMAGES AND GIFS

The images and GIFs used in this post have absolutely nothing to do with the written part of this post. But this is still a spanking blog and sometimes I get a build up of images and GIFs, that I like, but cannot find a use for, in another post, so I might as well put them in this post for your entertainment.

Emergency Post

I was planning another post for today, but due to circumstances beyond my control, it did not get finished.

Due to an incident at work, I spent most of yesterday doing medical stuff. When I tried to put the post together last night, I found it hard to find all the relevant GIFs and images that I wanted to use. Being in pain, I just gave up. And so I find myself cobbling together this post on Friday morning. Usually, posts on this blog are scheduled from at least the day before they go live.

Above image found at

VANILLA SPANKING

I managed to get an injury to my ribs. It was not as bad as first feared and there are no broken ribs.

There is damage to the muscles between the ribs and that is causing a lot of (not fun type) pain.

Above image found at

O AND P SPANKING STORIES

It is not a big deal, but it is highly irritating and affecting my ability to concentrate.

I have been given some Diclofenac patches to wear 12 hours every day. And some Algotra tablets, which seem to be the world’s most useless painkillers and not really worth bothering with.

Instructions have been given to take part in rest and gentle exercise. And I will hopefully be recovered by the end of next week, when the sick note runs out.

Above image found at

CONSENSUAL SPANKING SECOND EDITION

All in all, very irritating but not a biggie. At least it is an excuse to use some stuff from the hard drive, that I like but could not fit into another post. 🙂

Prefectdt

THE SUNDAY SWISHING – AND CORONAVIRUS BELGIUM, A PERSONAL UPDATE AND A VIDEO ABOUT LOCK DOWN

One For The Bucket List

I like to try new spanking implements but I never even thought about trying this one. It might require a post spanking shower though 🙂

This image came from

VANILLA SPANKING

I have decided that I will, from time to time, post a little update about the present situation in Belgium concerning myself and COVID 19. Normal posting will continue and I will tack these updates to the bottom of the post, to make it easy to just skip them, if you are not interested. If there are major changes here I will do a big post about them.

My Life And COVID 19 In Belgium – As Of The 22nd Of March 2020

I will put some relevant links both to this blog, another blog and English language news sources for Belgium at the end of this post.

1 – Work – My employers have decided that it is not viable to have all concerned reporting to the same depot at this time and have reduced the work force to a maximum of 9 on any one day. A rota has been drawn up and my working week has been reduced to 2 days, next week.

2 – Volunteering – I think that it is important that everyone is prepared to do their bit during this crisis. Thus I have asked for my name to be put on a list of volunteers to help set up an emergency triage centre for the local area. Major population areas have been given priority for these facilities, so I do not know when work will start on this in our little borough but I am happy to lend a hand when it does.

3- Shopping – I’m not sure if it is because of the restricted access to essential shops or because people have stopped panicking but on a visit to one of my local supermarkets yesterday, I found that most things had been sufficiently restocked and you can now get almost all the food and household items that you need (even toilet paper). I HAVE JELLY BEANS YAY!

4 – I need a spanking – Due to circumstances beyond my control, I have not been spanked since last June. Two plans to get spanked last weekend both fell through because of the situation here and it looks like I’ll have to wait a while for a butt roasting. I feel so pain slutty right now 😦

5 – Lists – I am developing a strange compulsion to write everything down in lists.

6 – This is not a lock down – Despite repeated reports in the international news media and although the regulations are strict here, Belgium is not in a full lock down. There will now be a video from Spain, to show everyone what full lock down looks like.

Lock Down In Spain

I have been following this couples vlogs as they and their two dogs and a nearly thirty year old campervan, have travelled around Europe, for about two years now. Unfortunately they have had to retreat to their apartment in Spain. This is their video about the lock down there.

Their travels to the Arctic circle last year and to central Europe the year before are well worth watching. If you want you can have a dig through their video archive through

THIS LINK

Useful Information Links

A USEFUL INFORMATION POST ABOUT REAL FACTS AND BS ABOUT THE VIRUS FROM FONDLERS ANONYMOUS

MY LAST POST ABOUT RESTRICTIONS IN BELGIUM

THE BRUSSELS TIMES

VRT NEWS – ENGLISH

Keep your peckers up everyone and keep washing your hands

Prefectdt

KINK ALONE

What Kink Related Things Can You Do If Your Stuck At Home

I have been wondering of late “What if I get told to self isolate?” because of the COVID 19 virus. I know that I am in a high risk category for flu infections because of my history of being hospitalised with pneumonia and pleurisy three times. I don’t know if this puts me in the high risk category for this new lurgy going around, it’s a very different animal to flu. But I have to be ready to self isolate, if I am told to do so. This is not good for me, I am very outdoorsy and don’t cope to well being stuck inside all day. On the occasions when I have had to stay at home through illness before, I have found it helps to keep busy. During a recovery from a broken ankle, I taught myself to touch type, with the aid of a Mavis Beacon program CD (pre internet days), that helped a lot with the isolation and frustration of not getting enough out door time. I have listed some vanilla projects that I could do around the house but I was thinking of what I could do to satisfy my kinky, spanky side.

Join A Spanking Video Site

This could occupy an hour or two ever day but which one should I join? I have narrowed it down to three candidates.

Dreams of Spanking

I have been a member of this site before and really enjoyed it but that was a long time ago and I am wondering what their most recent productions are like.

Triple A Spanking

I see this one around a lot and know that it offers a lot of content and am interested in seeing if it is as good as it seems.

Girl Spanks Girl

This one interests me a lot because it will have a lot of females topping and I like to see women doing the spanking 🙂

Note – I have not been sponsored by any of the above sites and am making no financial gain from them in any way.

Some Kinky DIY

I have, in the past, posted a few spanko and kinky item self builds and modifications such as the following two items

A WET CHAMOIS LEATHER FLOGGER

COOKING PERVERTABLES

Doing stuff like this is very appealing as it is physically active, requires a bit of brain use to figure out how to do it and it would be something to blog about. On the downside, I could not just pop down to the local DIY supplier for anything I was short of and would have to get inventive, using only what I could find around the house.

And At This Point I Ran Out Of Ideas

So like the lady in the photo above, I thought that I would get naked lean on my mantel piece and have a good think about what kinkiness I could get up to, if I get stuck home alone. But if any of you out there have some bright ideas I would love to hear them.

Prefectdt

ADDING A COUPLE OF BLOGS – AND WHAT TO DO WITH THIS BLOG?

Adding Two Blogs

The following two blogs will be added to the

BLOG AND VLOG ROLL PAGE

DADDYCAT

An interesting mixed blog about spanking and other kinky topics and musings.

VANILLA SPANKING

This is a blog mostly about spanking in mainstream media, such as films and plays. Sometimes it has other stuff like interesting photographers and news items.

What Shall I Do With This Blog?

There are two things that I like about having a spanking blog. The first is being part of an on line community, which I have from this blog at the moment. The second is being able to “spread the love” a bit by linking to articles on other blogs, this is a bit of a fail right now. Before I was forced to shut this blog down, I could put a link in a post and happily be told, in the stats, that I had sent between 50 and 200 visitors to that blog or web page. These days I see that I usually send between 5 and 12 visitors to a link in any one day. There is no great secret to why this is. It is because of the reduced numbers of visitors this blog attracts, between 80 and 150 in any one day as opposed to the 1200 to 1700 visitors that it used to get, at the height of it’s popularity. With so many other social media sources available now, I would never expect to get the amount of traffic here that I used to get but I would like to increase the foot fall a bit, so that I can get more people to follow links to somewhere fun.

Recently, whilst suffering from a seasonal lurgy, I did a daily single “Spec”tacular Spanking image post, as I did not feel able to spend too much time at the computer. This sent visitor numbers up on a nice climbing curve but as soon as I got back to the normal posting routine, the numbers dropped to what they where before. From this it looks like more regular posting gets more numbers than quality posting. So far I have come up with four options as to what to do now.

1 – Carry on as things are now and put up with not being able to spread much click love.

2 – Do cheap and easy daily picture posts with just the occasional well planed and thought out post.

3 – Carry on with my three posts a week and fill in the other days with quick and easy single picture posts.

4 – Give up on this blog and find a more popular platform like Twitter (this is my least favourite option).

If anyone has an opinion on which is the best one to pick or can think of any other options, I would love to hear about them.

Prefectdt