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I was luck enough to stumble across a couple of videos depicting Sorority and Fraternity spankings, in main stream films. We did not have this tradition in the UK, during my student days and it has always intrigued me.

Sorority Paddling

As far as I am aware, the image above is of a real Sorority paddling. The video below is not, it is from a movie. I don’t think that there would be whipped cream in real life 🙂

Fraternity Paddling

Again, I think that the image above is the real deal and it looks like someone has a good swing 🙂 The video below is typically film staged.

And As A Bonus

The video below has only one swat in it, but it is interesting to see who was and was not in a Fraternity, in College.



it is not a long stretch, to reach out and have a little peek into the world of bondage, which often gets combined with spanking. So here are some examples of bondage in motion.

Mainstream Vintage Bondage

This is a clip from an old American movie. Made in 1933 it just predates the introduction of the Hay’s code, after which, scenes in like this would not be allowed in mainstream American films.

Useful Bondage

With the Football (Soccer) world cup happening at the moment, this old advert could prove to be a useful instructional video, on how bondage can be helpful in keeping relationships harmonious 🙂

Fun To Watch For All

Finally, we have a video of some real rope bondage happening. Even though rope bondage is not my thing, it does interest me, but can take a bit too long, sometimes, letting the attention drift. So for the less “Hard Core” bondage fans, picking up the pace a little, as in this video, can be an advantage.



I found some videos, on YouTube, from a guy who wanders around, asking random people sex related questions. This time he was at some sort of American University (I think) and was asking peoples views on submissive men. Here are the videos.

Interesting But Disappointing

It’s Enough To Make Me Weep

And What The Guys Thought About It




Mistress Attrition, 27, Farmer, meets Gary The Gimp, 34, IT Consultant, On A Blind Date

Note – This is a 100% fictitious article. Neither of the two participants exist and any resemblance to real life people is purely coincidental. This post is based on a regular series of articles published in The UK Guardian newspaper. If you want to see the real thing, follow the link below.


Attrition On Gary

What were you hoping for?

To meet a worthless lump of meat, who would do my bidding, without question and be prepared to suffer dire consequences for even the slightest mistake.

First impressions?

Disappointing. His rubber needed polishing and I found that one of his buckles had not been done up.

What did you talk about?

I told him that he was not fit to lick the dirt off my shoes. That he should obey my every word. And repeatedly had to tell him to stop whimpering, whilst he was being punished.

Any awkward moments?

Yes, lots. But he paid the price for them, even when they were my fault.

Good table manners?

Terrible! He splashed his gruel around so badly that it took him nearly ten minutes to lick the floor clean and I had to dunk his head six times, in a barrel of ice-cold water, to clean his face.

Best thing about Gary?

He was good for target practice.

Would you introduce him to your friends?

I already introduced him to Sally, my live in submissive and tractor driver. I made her give him a good hard pegging between eating my entre and main meal. As a little inter course entertainment. Ha Ha.

Describe Gary in three words

Inadequate, subservient, pig.

What do you think he made of you?

Hopefully, he thought that I was a beautiful, merciless Goddess, who it was his privilege to serve.

Did you go on somewhere?

I dragged him down into my dungeon, he’s still there.

And … did you kiss?

What? Befoul my lips on that piece of offal? No!

If you could change one thing about the evening, what would it be?

I would have spent less time changing my outfits and wigs. I got too enthusiastic about showing off my range of costumes.

Marks out of 10?

A solid ten. Gary is a grovelling wretch, who over tries to please and needs frequent and severe punishment. All in all, a perfect Gimp slave.

Would you meet again?

I will decide that at dawn, when I get up to milk the cows.

Gary On Attrition

What were you hoping for?

To meet a radiant and powerful tyrant, who would turn my immediate future into a living hell.

First impressions?

She was an evil minded, overbearing, uncompromising monster, who looked stunning in rubber and leather.

What did you talk about?

Mostly I said, Yes and No, Mistress. By your command. I am worthless. And Ouch! and AARGH! a lot.

Any awkward moments?

Almost every moment was excruciatingly awkward. That is what made it such a wonderful evening.

Good table manners?

Impeccable! And she only stabbed me with her fork when she thought that I deserved it. Which was a lot of times.

Best thing about Attrition?

She has a strong and accurate whipping arm.

Would you introduce her to your friends?

Of course, I love a good slave party.

Describe Attrition in three words

Always obey her.

What do you think she made of you?

Hopefully, an obedient slave who can handle a lot of necessary punishment and humiliation.

Did you go on somewhere?

Yes. She took me to her dungeon and locked me in a cage. I am still in there now.

And … did you kiss?

I was granted the honour of giving her a little peck on the cheek.

If you could change one thing about the evening, what would it be?

I would have made more mistakes. She is amazingly good at handing out severe punishments.

Marks out of 10?

A good, solid 8. She is a very competent and demanding Domme, but she is a little too obsessed with changing her outfits too often.

Would you meet again?

I hope so. If for nothing else, than to let me out of this cage, in time for me to get to work tomorrow.

Mistress Attrition and Gary the Gimp ate in the kitchen of Mistress Attrition’s farm house.



They Were Good But They Could Have Been Better

A Spanish Patting

This first scene is from a Spanish production, that I do not know anything about. Everything about this scene is great, the setting, the sub-plot, the atmosphere and all the technical details, except for the actual spanking scene itself.

I can see no reason why they could not get a professional stunt bottom in to take an actual spanking. There is no need to see the spanking itself, nor the paddle making contact with the bottom, but images of the actor taking some proper swings would have stopped this scene disgracing itself, like it did. Also, if they had taken footage of the stunt bottom’s face, while the spanking was happening, that would have given the actor playing the recipient a chance to see what real expressions she should try to recreate with her own face.

The Famous Handmaid’s Tale Belting

Again, a great scene. And apparently a real belting did take place, although protection from bikers protection gear was used to safeguard against any damage to the posterior.

But look at the way he is bringing that belt in. Top down on someone who is bent over. I suspect that if anyone did this at a spanking party, plenty of people would have interceded and told the spanker how it really should be done. Here, it would have been a good idea to get an experienced advisor, on how to carry out a belting, in this position. Perhaps someone like…

Mistress Baton, both an experienced Dominatrix and in her other role, as Yvonne Van Den Bergh, an experienced actor, who will know a thing or two about both spanking and professional, on film, drama production.

These companies spend a lot of money on producing their wares and do not seem shy about bringing in stunt performers for action scenes, advisors for technical accuracy and a whole host of other people, to make their productions look convincing. So Why, O, why, do they spoil the ship for the sake of a tuppence of tar, when it comes to spanking scenes?



A Focus On The Tawse

As leather toys go, a real Tawse, not a wannabe split leather strap, is just about the most fearsome, short range, toy that you can get. As The images above and below illustrate.

But it is not the Tawse used on the bottom, that this post will be focusing on but….

Hand Tawsing

Although impacts on the buttocks, back of the legs and even the back can be far more satisfying than hand play, there is something psychologically thrilling and scary, seeing the blow coming in, that can really get the endorphins flowing. You might get a better idea of this from the following video.

The Tawse is about the most painful impact toy that you can use on the hands. If you used a cane to cause the same level of pain, you would be at risk of damaging all those small bones, that are found in the hand. The severity of the Tawse, relies on its proportions. Traditionally, the Lochgelly Tawse was 22 inches (about 56 cm) long and came in varying thicknesses to vary the severity level. But even the least severe was by no means skinny. The following images give an idea of the various thicknesses of Tawses

A light Tawse

A heavy Tawse

(I could not find an image of the thickness of a medium Tawse)

An extra heavy Tawse

And the following GIF illustrates what instructions a recipient might receive before having their hands Tawsed. Although the Tawse being used here is the traditional Glasgow, 3 tailed Tawse, this should whip up those stomach butterflies into a veritable storm, if this was seen through your own eyes 🙂

The impact of a Tawse on the palms is brutal, to say the least. The after effects are equally disturbing. It feels like the centre of your palm has developed a black hole, whose gravity field is dragging the rest of the skin on your hand into its depths. Even when people are only pratting about with this toy, you can tell that it causes a lot of real pain on the paws, as can be seen, in the following two videos.

An interesting break from work

And fun at the local pub

The Tawse Helped End The Use Of Corporal Punishment in UK Schools (Hooray!)

It was a court case about the use of the Tawse in Scottish schools that did not end the use of CP in UK schools, but it did start the ball rolling in that direction. Leaving the use of the Tawse firmly where it should be, only between consenting adults. The following video not only tells you about this but also has some footage of how a real Tawse is made, that I found very interesting.

It is the pain and body chemicals that make impact play so wonderful. But actually seeing it coming can add a psychological element that can increase the sensation tenfold.

I hope that this post has brought back good memories to those who enjoy hand Tawsing and perhaps, tempted those of you who have yet to experience it to give it a go.