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SPANKING ROUND THE HOUSE – THE GARDEN

Welcome to another in this series of posts. Spankos very often practice their art in a domestic situation, utilizing various locations in their homes and often their everyday furniture as spanking benches or supports. In this edition of this image based exploration of spanking domesticity, let us take a look at……

The Back Garden

OK, this might not be an option for everyone with a garden. Unless you have very broad-minded neighbours. But for those who live in a more isolated situation, the garden is a great place to play and offers so many opportunities for some butt busting fun or other kinky relaxations. And you can always have a nice barbecue afterwards

Full Of Useful Spanking Items

Adding only a pair of secateurs and a length of rope, that tree can provide a strong anchoring point to tie a spankee to and the birch that is to be applied to their rear end

An Extra Challenge For The Spanker

If you are lucky enough to have a pool, positioning the recipient of the spanking on the edge of that pool, gives the spanker the opportunity to hand out hard enough licks in the hope that the submissive might end their spanking with a dunking

And It Is An Appropriate Place For Garden Related Discipline

Well what else are you going to do, if he didn’t get that yard work done 🙂

Even If You Are Alone

The garden is a nice place to indulge in some self spanking

Plenty Of Room For Friends

And what better way is there of kicking off a garden party, than with some spanking amateur dramatic entertainment

And Talking Of Space

No matter how big your toy is, there is little danger of banging it on walls or doors

Don’t Forget That Picknick Table

The garden furniture can easily double as spanking benches

That trellis isn’t only good for the clematis

Kinky Alternatives

If all the available bottoms are just too sore to spank any more. Just try a little puppy training

In Conclusion

On a sunny Sunday Afternoon, there is great enjoyment to be had hearing the swish of toys smacking on bottoms, in the healthy fresh air of your own back garden

And Don’t Forget

You will need to get some special tools, to keep in the potting shed 🙂

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ROSES WITH AND WITHOUT THORNS

A couple of weeks ago, I came across (not literally) a Twitter feed called Dommes Clothing. There is a link below

DOMMES CLOTHING

Digging a little, in the archives, there appeared a photo series featuring women in their everyday clothing and dressed to thrill. This seemed very interesting and I thought that it would be nice to share some of these images here

Strangely, none of those portrayed seemed any more or less sexually attractive in their dominant get-up than in their everyday clobber

But very different mental switches were thrown, depending on their attire and pose

Also, they all looked far more mature in their dominant guise. And I do mean mature and not older

The different outfits also changed my perception of their self-confidence levels

I wonder if they felt more self-confident, when dressed to oppress?

Whoever came up with the idea should be congratulated for it

This idea is a very clever exercise of how visual presentation effects mental perception

Even when the same person is presented in two different dominant attires

I hope that gave you all food for thought

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SPANKING ROUND THE HOUSE – THE WOODEN HILL

Welcome to another in this series of posts. Spankos very often practice their art in a domestic situation, utilizing various locations in their homes and often their everyday furniture as spanking benches or supports. In this edition of this image based exploration of spanking domesticity, let us take a look at……

The Stairs Of Discipline

Going Up The Wooden Hill To Bedfordshire, Without Your Supper

Those of you who live in apartments and bungalows might sigh in envy at those of us who have two or more levels, in our accommodation, as you will be lacking one of the most fun places to play in, the stairs. The stairs offer a myriad of uses for disciplinary play and are always there when you want them, as well as being a useful way to get to the bedroom

A Great Leveller

On the stairs, a spanker can get their target at just the right level, to receive their just deserts, merely by making them go up or down a step

A Place To Earn A Spanking

A determined Brat can always use the stair rail to give their spanker a reason to spank them

By getting caught having fun

Or getting caught having even more fun

Telling Them Off

Stairs offer an opportunity for a Top or Dom(me) to gain the psychological and physical high ground, come scolding time

Up On the Landing

The rail on the stair landing is a very convenient place to position a spankee for their punishment. And as the implements get harsher and the swats harder, the spankee might also fear being launched into the abyss below

Preparing For A Spanking

Being a spanker can be a physically challenging occupation. The stairs can be a good place for a spanker to limber up, before the event. And help them avoid any potential stresses and strains

The Stairs Can Also Be…

A ready seat for OTK play

A good place for a one way system

A spankee dealt with and then sent straight to bed, making room for the next one

Somewhere where the cries of the spanked can announce their shame to the whole house

Beyond Just Spanking

The stairway does offer tantalizing opportunities for bondage and confinement

And don’t forget the proper use of the naughty step

After All The Action

Is there a finer sight than the justly chastised, wearily climbing the route to their room 🙂

It Is A Shame Though

That some girls misuse stairs, to show off their assets

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SPANKING ROUND THE HOUSE – WHAT’S COOKING IN THE KITCHEN

Welcome to another in this series of posts. Spankos very often practice their art in a domestic situation, utilizing various locations in their homes and often their everyday furniture as spanking benches or supports. In this edition of this image based exploration of spanking domesticity, let us take a look at……

Spanking In The Kitchen

Where All The Best Parties End Up

Every house has a kitchen and we tend to spend a lot of time in them. Cooking, washing up, cleaning and spying on the neighbours out of the window. So why not add enjoying some spanking play to that list. Most kitchens have enough room to play in, even the small ones

Plenty Of Pervertables

If a spanker has forgotten to bring some dedicated toys, this is no problem as the draws are stuffed with tools that can be perverted to spanking purposes

Spoons, spatulas, frying pans and a whole host of other goodies are at hand to be turned to some fun impact play

But check what you have taken out of the cupboard, before you start trying to spank with it

Role Play Heaven

The kitchen offers a whole smorgasbord of possibilities to those who want to add a little amateur dramatics to their spanking play

That’ll teach him to tell her to make him a san’ich

A good place to deal with disappointing servants

The boys were late home from the party

This boy and girl thought they could get a sneaky midnight feast

And the neighbours can see you dresses like that through the window

The Kitchen is also a great place for genuine domestic discipline

I did not give you permission to get a tattoo

Can you see the crumbs on the floor now?

I have been waiting here to make sure that you know there will be consequences when you break your diet plan

And There Is Always The Opportunity For Some Home Image Making

With all that light from the large window, making home videography and photography a doddle

All In All, The Kitchen Is A Fun Place To Get Spanked

For him

And For Her

And After The Spanking You Can Enjoy A nice Beverage

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Note – I have deliberately included an M/m GIF in this post, as some people enjoy those. Please feel free to express an opinion about this. I am interested to know if this is a popular thing to do

OTHER PEOPLE’S KINKS – BUTT HUMPING

When I hear about women humping, I usually think of something happening similar to the GIF below

A grown up girl rubbing herself on a pillow, piece of furniture or the body part of another person in order to reach a satisfying end. But this post is not about that type of “Humping”

Butt Humping

Recently, I have become aware of this kind of Butt Humping

Where a woman bangs her crotch, quite aggressively sometimes, against the recipient’s buttocks

I have to admit that I became fascinated by this. I am not sure how effective this is for the humper, in achieving a satisfying end and I am wrongly equipped to find out for myself. If I did try to be a humper, I think that this would only result in some self-inflicted CBT

It only seems to be a rewarding activity for the humper. There does not seem to be any sexual gratification for the humpee. Unless it is between two girls and they want to take turns

Many times, it does seem to be an act of sacrifice, on the part of the recipient

From what I have found so far, this does seem to be an exclusively, girl on girl activity. I cannot understand why. There must be lots of guys, even the most vanilla ones, who would not mind letting themselves be humped like this, in order to please their partner. After all, it does not involve any sort of penetration

Butt Humping does not even require nudity sometimes. Although, I have to admit, that I find it more interesting to watch when a certain amount of clothing is lost. Or perhaps that is just me deserving to get spanked for this desire 🙂

Conclusion

Normally, in an “Other People’s Kinks” post, this is the point where I usually say something like “I am happy for those that enjoy this kind of thing, but it is not for me”. Not this time, though. I seriously want a woman to Hump my Butt. Especially after my rear end has received a hearty thrashing. The thought of a woman pounding away at my battered rear end, reawakening the feeling of the strapping, caning or other punishment, that she has meted out to me is highly appealing. As well as having the advantage of being a physical way of enforcing mental dominance over me. Showing me who is in charge. Letting me know, in no uncertain terms, that she is the Boss

Well, a guy can dream 🙂

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SPANKING ROUND THE HOUSE – THE STRAIGHT BACKED CHAIR

Welcome to another in this series of posts. Spankos very often practice their art in a domestic situation, utilizing various locations in their homes and often their everyday furniture as spanking benches or supports. In this edition of this image based exploration of spanking domesticity, let us take a look at…….

The Straight backed chair

Found All Around The House

We find these chairs in various forms, around dining tables, in the kitchen, in front of bedroom dressing tables and at the computer desk

But even if they are not in the room where you want them, they are easily transportable to where they are needed

Ideal For OTK

Both for spanking her

And for spanking him

It is, in fact, the go-to furnishing, for many spankers wanting to administer an OTK punishment

Lean On Me

If the spankee needs something to lean on, to receive a spanking that requires a longer swing, this purpose is served too

Stay In Position

For a spankee who tends to flinch away from those biting strokes, the back of the chair can be used to keep their bottom where it needs to be

Break Out The toys

And if you have a standing or OTK spanking, the chair is a great place to deploy those weapons of ass destruction

Taking the knee

A cushioned chair is always a comfortable spot for a spankee to kneel

Adding To The Fun

Put two chairs together and they can make a passable spanking bench

Other Alternatives Are Available

Such as a base for a wheelbarrow spanking

Keeping Them In Their Place

Some spankees can do a disappearing act, if they know that a spanking is happening in the near future. A little chair bondage will keep them where they are needed, until the appointed hour arrives

DIY

If the straight backed chair is your kind of thing, you could try making a special one, to fit your exact requirements

Once the spanking is over, you are left with a place for someone to sit, uncomfortably 🙂

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