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CURTAIN HAIR REVISITED

How To Frame Female Features With Grace

Over a decade ago, I did a post called “Curtain Hair”. If you don’t remember what I was going on about, it is explained in this quote, from that post.

“I’m not sure if that is the proper term for it but it is the one that I use. It refers to the very practical sweeping of the hair, of a model being photographed or videoed, over one side of her head, so that her face can still be seen in a shot whilst she is bent over.”

So why revisit the subject now? Because back then, I could not post GIFs. So I thought that it would be nice to do an illustrated revisit of the subject, with still images and GIFs. Enjoy.

This can also be attractive when the spanker is doing it 🙂

What are your thoughts on Curtain Hair?

Personally, I just wish that I could still grow that much hair on my head 😦

Prefectdt

IT’S HARD TO BEAT – OR WHAT’S IN A WORD

I Like To Be Beaten

If you follow this link, it will take you to a post that I commented on

THE POWER OF WORDS – ERICA SCOTT

In the comment, I admitted to getting a thrill from a group of words, that I don’t tell people about very often. Those are words like, Beat, Beaten, Beating and so on and so forth. So I thought that I would do an illustrated post about words on this theme and why they get my attention.

From childhood, through to my teenage years, I would often scour the books in my local library, looking for tales of UK boarding schools, in the bad old days. Books with scenes of corporal punishment in them. I would not even check these books out, to save embracement. But instead would commit the tales to memory for later.

The CP scenes in these books were always M/m but later, in my mind, they were converted into F/m imaginations.

But there was that group of words that came up over and over again in those books, in phrases like “I am going to beat you” or “You will be beaten for that” or “There will be a beating, later today”. And so these words stuck in my mind as something thrilling and exciting.

Why I Don’t Often Admit To The Buzz That These Words Give Me

In these modern times, these words are associated with a lot of negativity and so a lot of people, understandably, do not like to use them in spanking play. For example, how often has your favourite sporting team been…

BEATEN

And there are a lot worse things that this group of words tends to get tied to.

So I am very careful of whom I ask to use these words and phrases with me. And I have and would never use them if I were Topping on a woman.

But They Still Thrill Me

A beating well-earned

You must be beaten

I will beat the lesson into you

Sometimes it is a word that you just can’t beat 🙂

But still it is a word that I am very careful about when, where and who I use it with.

I hope that you have a less controversial set of words or phrases that gets your spine tingling.

Prefectdt

TIS THE SEASON TO BE BIRCHING, TRA LA LA LA LA, LA LA LA LA

At Least In The Northern Hemisphere

You might have noticed that there has been a bit of a birching theme, on this blog, since Saturday. I thought that I would bring that to an end today with a selection of images and a few thoughts on the subject.

I Wonder If Birches Turn Out Better, If You Get Naked To Make Them?

I will have to try it one day. Just to find out for myself 🙂

But Spring Is The Best Time Of Year To Make Birches

As birches are best made out of the newer growth of fast-growing trees and shrubs, you have the whole of last year’s new growth to play with.

And as most of the plants have not budded yet, you do not have the tedious task of picking all the leaves off the branches, before making the birch.

In spring, just prior to the buds bursting, the amount of sap running into the branches tends to increase. Making the branches a little heavier and more flexible than normal.

I Have Only Experienced Three Types Of Birch

There are dozens of trees and shrubs, that you can make birch rods out of, but I have only ever been on the receiving end of three of these.

Siberian dog wood birch

Although these look big, red and mean, these really are the birch for wimps. A spanker can thrash away with one of these and it is one of the easiest toys for the recipient to experience. The pain level is not high at all.

HEAVY DOGWOOD BIRCH

Willow birch

These are very ouchy and may be beyond the limits of a new spankee. But an experienced player will probably enjoy this toy. The type of pain sensation is special, even a bit yummy.

WILLOW BIRCH

Hazel wood birch

I would describe being spanked with one of these as one of the most challenging spankee experiences that you can have. It is incredibly painful and it does not surprise me that they used to be used for real judicial punishments, in the bad old days.

And Just A Few More Birching Images To Enjoy

And that concludes this little miniseries of birch related postings on this blog… For now 🙂

Prefectdt

CARDING YOUR BRAT

We Those Brats out there often go unrecognized, but not unpunished, for all the efforts that we they go to in thinking up colourful bratting schemes. From the simple insulting gesture to the complicated plot, they all take thought and effort. Tootling around the internet, I have managed to find some specialist greeting cards, that we those brats would appreciate, by the way of recognition. I am posting a selection of those cards here, along with a few images and GIFs illustrating how they might be earned.

I think that rewarding your brat with a nice card, to go along with their severe punishment, is a wonderful idea. And to anyone who does not like the concept, all I have to say is…

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A MUSICAL SCOLDING

A good scolding can take many forms, sometimes just the right glance can get a spankee trembling.

But I found a clip on YouTube that represents, to me anyway, the ultimate musical scolding. It is in Italian, a language that I cannot understand and I have deliberately not tried to find out what the singer is singing about or the context of the song. It is far more fun to imagine that she is telling me about what wrongs, that I have committed and exactly what she intends to do to me, as a consequence.

The Ultimate Musical Scolding

That really clicks my “Yes M’s, No M’s, Three bags full M’s” buttons

It does help that it is by Vivaldi, too. His compositions are just so wonderfully busy 🙂

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LOL DAY 17 – LOVE OUR LIFESTYLE

Firstly, thank you to Hermione, for organizing this event. Sometime today, a list should be appearing on her blog, showing you the way to other participating blogs. You can get to her blog through the following link

HERMIONE’S HEART

Don’t You Just Love That Moment Of Impact And The Person Giving It

The above image was found at

VANILLA SPANKING

For this year’s LOL day, I thought it would be nice to celebrate the feeling of the moment of impact and take this opportunity to thank those who deliver said impact.

Gotta love the personal touch of a hand

The feel of a flogger

The challenge of a paddle

Oh! The sweet kiss of the cane

A wonderfully wealed whip

And all those other things that can batter deserving buttocks

Thank You To All Those Kind Enough To Deliver Those Sumptuous Spanks

You can’t get a spank, without a spanker to spank it. And each one has their own way of playing. So…

Thank you to the teachers of lessons

Thank you to the psychological game players

Thank you to the ones who like to make it more personal

And thank you to the old school spankers

In fact, thank all varieties of spankers, Just remember…

HAPPY LOL DAY TO ONE AND ALL AND KEEP ON LOVING GETTING AND GIVING THOSE SPANKS

Prefectdt