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SANITY SAVING ELECTRIC SPANKER

A Note About The GIFs In This Post

The GIFs in this post have nothing to do with the written part of the post. This post is about a device that I use to give myself an electric equivalent of a spanking and to be honest might be a little dry to some people. This is still a general entertainment, spanking blog, so the GIFs, of other people enjoying very different kinds of electric play than I use, are simply there to entertain everyone.

Getting Spanked By The Sanitas SEM 44 Electric Muscle Stimulation Device

I told nora, in the comments to one of her post, of the blog…

FINDING STRENGTH IN MY SUBMISSION

that I should one day do a post about the machine that saved my sanity, during the COVID-19 lockdowns, by administering electric spankings to my rear end, when no other options were available. And this is that post.

I have posted before about another electric device that I have, twice…

IN THIS POST

AND THIS POST

The Sanitas device is different to that one, which is from MyStim, a dedicated BDSM play device, that is better used between two people. The Sanitas device is a generally available, TENS, EMS and electric massage unit. I got it at my local Lidl, a discount food store, that remained open during the lockdowns. It was not very expensive, less than 30 Euros, although I cannot remember the exact price now. It was a case of thinking that it might be worth a shot and if it did not work out, not much money had been lost. Luckily for me, it was a winner.

During the lockdowns and the periods in between, when it was still not possible to play with anyone else, I had tried self spanking, but this does not do anything for me. My emotional, psychological and mental state were starting to suffer, due to the lack of spankings. The Sanitas SEM 44 helped to rectify this situation. It has three modes, TENS (transcutaneous electrical nerve stimulation), EMS (electrical muscle stimulation) and electrical massage.

I found that program 31 in the EMS mode could deliver the electrical equivalent of a spanking to the buttocks. Two of the sticky pads should be attached to the crown of the buttocks (not the sit spot, as I first thought), about a closed hand’s width apart, symmetrically, either side of the butt crack.

I then set the unit to EMS mode program 31. This can be varied in intensity from a grade of 1 to 50, on the device. I found that anything above 35 could produce a painful sensation. The device can then be left to run on a timer and required no more interaction from me. This program went in cycles that started with a tensing of the butt muscles, uncomfortable but not painful, then went on to a sensation that was like sweet relief washing across my rear end muscles. The third action was a few seconds of no stimulation and then the fourth, electrical pulse (that I nicknamed the cane stroke effect) sent a painful sensation across the buttocks for a period of about 20 seconds. The program then runs on its own, repeating these four sensations, until the allotted time is up. At maximum intensity (50) I could do little else but lie face down on my bed and process the pain. All this from 3 AAA batteries.

This was not as good as getting a spanking from a real life person, but it was better than self spanking. This is because, once the program was started, I did not have to do anything myself, except concentrate on the pain, that I was experiencing. It might be a useful device to use for those that are distanced from their disciplinarian or for whatever reason cannot interact with another live human being, for a spanking. It definitely helped save my sanity during the period of COVID-19.

I hope that the written part of that post was helpful to some people and that everyone else was entertained by the GIFs.

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GETTING SPANKED AND CANED BY ALEXIA – AND A MINI REVIEW

And I Did Get A Good Caning ๐Ÿ™‚

A few weeks ago, I had a very satisfying pay to play That I told you about in

THIS POST

Unfortunately, at that time, I forgot to ask permission to tell about it properly, on this blog and I never play and tell without permission. The person who spanked me, impressed me so much, that I decided to seek her out once more and she spanked me again, but this time I did get her permission to blog about the experience.

Getting Spanked By Alexia

That is a photo of her, from the internet, with her trademark leg bands. She works from the red-light district in Antwerp and does offer intimate services as well, but I did not partake of those services, preferring to get spanked more. Although very slender, she does have strong arms and the ability to hand spank hard, as well as weal toys with a gusto. Although, she does not really have much by the way of weapons of ass destruction. This time I took my special belt again and some pervertables. So she could have a good go at walloping my rear end, and she did, with most satisfying results. One of those toys I will be reviewing at the end of this post. For the first part of my chastisement, I was laid face down on a bed, whilst all hell was let loose on my rear end with the pick and mix of toys that I had taken with me. And most enjoyable that was too ๐Ÿ™‚

And Then I was Caned

I also took a short, German style peeled cane with me, that I can bend and fit into a regular backpack. For the second half of the spanking I was bent over, freestanding, supporting myself on the sides of the bed and then was caned.

That GIF is not myself and Alexia playing together, but it does give an idea of how it went. Alexia is not that experienced with spanking toys, but she listened well to what I asked of her and delivered a memorable and satisfying caning. I did get caned last year, but that did not go so well. Alexia handed out, what felt like, the best caning that I have had in years, despite her limited experience. I hope that she gets more practice at the disciplinarian arts. She is very good at it now. With more experience and maybe a little training, I suspect that she could become excellent in the art of Topping. Now for a review of a pervertable that I took with me, for this playtime.

MY Dogging Strap, A Mini Review

The Strap

This is a short but sturdy decorated strap, measuring 30 centimetres long, 3 centimetres wide and 4 millimetres thick. It is small and easily portable. You can read about where I obtained it through

THIS LINK

In Play

This was the first time that I have been spanked with this strap and it surprised me. I was expecting it to be a convenient, OTK strap, much like any other, but it was not. Despite its short length, it was incredibly painful and had a sensation that felt more like being cut than strapped, although it did not break my skin, it felt like it was. It was a challenge to take and had a brutal impact that its visual appearance would not suggest. It was difficult but satisfying to be spanked by this. I think that it might take a bit of getting used to, though.

The Report Card

This strap did its job better than was expected and added a new sensation to the spanking mix, in a severe way. It has earned a good, solid B plus.

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WHAT I DID ON MY HOLIDAY

While I Was Gone

Well, my holiday did not go to plan, I was supposed to be on a trip to the UK, but that fell through. So I decided to stay in Belgium for this one. I headed south, intending to end up in the Ardennes. On the way, I stopped off for a day to visit a castle.

The castle had a chapel in it, that looked like it had been designed by a religious spanko.

That is not a picture of it. If things go to plan, there will be a special post about that at a later date, including my own photos. Then the weather got so hot, I changed plans and headed for the coast.

There I visited an open air museum and after that just chilled for a few days, enjoying the sea breezes and the coastline. Towards the end of my travels, I headed off to get spanked and took along a fun toy or two with me.

That is not a photo of my spanking, but it did involve a caning and I have permission to tell you about it this time. There will be a post about that sometime in the next two weeks.

Whilst at the coast, I took a smartphone photo, that I am a bit proud of. I think I could have improved on the image, if I had my real camera with me, but at the time all I had was my phone. Considering the limitations of a phone snap, I think that it turned out all right. What do you think?

Fun break over. Back to real life now.

Prefectdt

I DIDN’T GET SPANKED AND THEN I DID GET SPANKED – AND A MINI REVIEW

Happy To Report, I Got A Properly Harsh Butt Whupping

That is not me in the image above, that is just there as an illustration

A spanking did not happen

I went away on a little trip, just over a week ago, to meet up with someone who might have been a potential play partner, but that fell through. Not the first time that has happened this year.

And then a spanking did happen

Feeling frustrated and needing what I have not had for some time now, a jolly good bottom warming, instead I managed to hastily arrange a pay to play. I cannot go into too much detail about that, as permission of the spanker was not obtained. She probably would have given permission, but I was so high, at the end of the spanking, that I just plain forgot to ask her.

Although the person concerned does not usually hand out bottom spankings (this was arranged in a very short time), she had experience in other forms of BDSM impact play and these skills transferred well to the activity of spanking. I got the hardest and most enjoyable spanking that I have had in about four years. It was bliss. And the special belt that I have, got it’s first proper usage. There will be a mini review of that at the end of this post. If you want to know more about the belt, click on the following link.

AN EXPENSIVE PERVERTABLE

And I got marks

Yup, that horrible hairy thing is my battered butt ๐Ÿ™‚ It was strange how they came about, though. I have not had markings like this since about 2008 and these did not appear straight away. On the day, my rear end was swollen and very pink. The next day it was swollen but had returned to its normal colour. On day three, the bruises appeared and it is still a little bruised now, but almost fully recovered.

The last time that I started marking again, was when I changed medication for my thick blood syndrome, in 2007 and that lasted for a little over a year. About 18 months ago, my medication was changed to a very new product, Xarelto. Perhaps this explains why I am marking again. It is a little puzzling that the bruising took over 48 hours to appear, though.

It was so nice to have a visual memento of the event, for a change ๐Ÿ™‚

My Special Belt, A Mini Review

The Belt

This is a handcrafted, old-fashioned type of leather. 120 cm long, 4 cm wide and 4 mm thick. It is heavy and very stiff.

In Play

It was, mostly, used doubled over and swung with considerable force from a standing position, I could see the person wealing it in a mirror. The impact had a lot of thump and created some noticeable deep muscle trauma, that lasted for about four days after the spanking. Surprisingly, it created a high amount of sting, as well. Although I have been spanked with this before, it was only lightly. On this occasion, it lived up to its wonderfully brutal potential.

Conclusion

I am glad that I spent the money on this ๐Ÿ™‚

The report card

This belt excelled in its task, proving to be both thuddy and stingy at the same time, whilst leaving a lasting impression on the individual on the receiving end. This belt gets a solid A. Well done.

Prefectdt

I GOT SPANKED SKIN TO SKIN

Notes – 1/ None of the images in this post are of the spanking that I received, they are just ones that I found on the internet and are there for illustrative purposes only

2/ I did ask for and receive the permission of the other person involved in this spanking to write a blog post about it, whilst not revealing her identity or location

Spanked Flesh To Flesh

I did get spanked back in June, but that spanking, like the one the year before it, was only with implements, as a lot of people are still paranoid about direct physical contact. 17 months ago, I shook hands with a friend and that was the last skin to skin contact that I had with another human being, till last week that is ๐Ÿ™‚

Employing Services

I really wanted a hand spanking and physical contact with another human being. So I approached a professional who normally offers more intimate personal services and is therefore already used to getting close up and personal with people, but was not above turning her hand to a bit of spanking. I would like to point out two things at this point, 1/ Although she offers them, I did not partake in any of her sexual services and 2/ I have been double jabbed with Pfizer, some months ago now and the lady in question also stated that she had been inoculated.

It Started With A Hand

As she sat on the bed, I bent over her lap. She was only wearing underwear (her choice) and I was bare apart from my man thong, finally my skin touched that of another human being and it felt so good. Not in a sexual way, but in a comforting, reassuring sort of way. Skin to skin contact with other people is one of those things that you do not know the importance of, until it is not available to you. Then she proceeded to spank my bottom with her hand…. heaven.

Then A Hairbrush

Unfortunately, the hand spanking did not last long. This was because, as she had pointed out to me before we started to play, she was not very experienced in spanking and my gnarly old bottom hide was hurting her hand too much. I had taken some pervertables with me and handed her a hairbrush, then resumed my position over her lap, to receive the sweet kiss of wood on flesh. This worked well for both of us

Slipper Time

By this time, I needed a higher pain level. I took a position on all fours, on the bed, while she stood and attempted to slipper me from the side, with one of the beach shoes that I told you about in

THIS REVIEW

As I said before, she is not experience in spanking techniques and struggled with this. Then I remembered a GIF, that I had posted in a previous post, the one above and suggested that we tried this position, this was new to me too. This worked so much better than I had hoped. It played well with my mind, having her buttocks pressing hard into my shoulders. I felt happily restrained by her body on top of mine and the breath restriction that it caused, intensified the feeling of pain that I perceived. She was new to this and reluctant to spank as hard as I would normally be spanked, but this seemed satisfying to both of us

It Finished With A Belting

Last year, I purchased a new belt. You can read about it in

THIS LINK

This was the first time that it was used. I lay on the bed and was belted with it, not too hard, but this leather bit hard anyway. I want to do a review of this belt, but I will wait until it has been swung by someone with more experience. Even though my spanker was not willing to get too harsh with me (sensible of her, as she had not developed the skill level to do so), the belting did hurt and I noticed that, unlike many other belts, the pain was along the entire length that it struck and not just in the last inch or two. And that concluded the spanking

And it was so good to be touched by another human being again, after nearly a year and a half of pandemic caution

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BEACH SHOES – A REVIEW OF A PERVERTABLE

During a short trip away, in June, I managed to get a long awaited spanking. It was about a year since my last spanking before that. Unfortunately, I do not have permission to tell you about who or where or any personal details of the other protagonist. But I did take a new pervertable with me and experienced their effect during the spanking. So I thought that I would write a review of my experience

Beach Shoes

These were competitively priced at just under 5 Euros. They have a synthetic sole and thin drainable cloth uppers. The moment that I saw them, I recognized their potential as a spanking pervertable.

Flexible and transportable

They flatten down quite thin and are far more flexible than their spanking footwear competitors, those being slippers, plimsolls and flip-flops. This means that they can be folded or even rolled for easy transport. In the winter, you could easily fit one into a large coat pocket.

Easy to hold

The flexibility of the sole makes them easy to grip, in a squeezed fashion, making them suitable for any size hand to hold

While being griped, they still present a large enough area, towards the toe of the shoe, to provide a good surface to strike the buttock with

Compared to the competition

The slipper

Slippers can vary a lot, but on the whole tend to be heavier and more substantial than the beach shoes and therefore a bit more painful in play

The Plimsoll

These tend to be the heaviest and sturdiest of the foot ware based pervertables, They are definitely more painful than the beach shoes

The flip-flop

My experience of these is that they can be a bit wimpy, the beach shoes hurt a lot more

In Play

Being spanked with a beach shoe was a satisfying experience. Whilst they are a bit too light and flexible to be very effective in an OTK situation, they work very well when the spanker is standing and taking a good swing. The soles of these shoes are a little too flexible to plant a strike directly on the buttock and are best used in a swipe through motion, similar to the one used in this GIF

The pain level that was achieved with these, whilst not as high as with a slipper or plimsoll, was significant and they caused some deep muscle trauma, that I could feel in my buttocks, when walking, for about four days afterwards

Conclusion

I was very happy to be spanked with these and intend never to wear them. If the occasion arises again, I would take them along to be applied to my rear end. All in all a very good purchase

The School Report

Whilst other shoe base pervertables might be more severe. The beach shoes more than compensate for this with their price effectiveness, easy transportability and good solid performance in a play situation. The beach shoe makes a well-earned B+

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