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I DIDN’T GET SPANKED AND THEN I DID GET SPANKED – AND A MINI REVIEW

Happy To Report, I Got A Properly Harsh Butt Whupping

That is not me in the image above, that is just there as an illustration

A spanking did not happen

I went away on a little trip, just over a week ago, to meet up with someone who might have been a potential play partner, but that fell through. Not the first time that has happened this year.

And then a spanking did happen

Feeling frustrated and needing what I have not had for some time now, a jolly good bottom warming, instead I managed to hastily arrange a pay to play. I cannot go into too much detail about that, as permission of the spanker was not obtained. She probably would have given permission, but I was so high, at the end of the spanking, that I just plain forgot to ask her.

Although the person concerned does not usually hand out bottom spankings (this was arranged in a very short time), she had experience in other forms of BDSM impact play and these skills transferred well to the activity of spanking. I got the hardest and most enjoyable spanking that I have had in about four years. It was bliss. And the special belt that I have, got it’s first proper usage. There will be a mini review of that at the end of this post. If you want to know more about the belt, click on the following link.

AN EXPENSIVE PERVERTABLE

And I got marks

Yup, that horrible hairy thing is my battered butt ๐Ÿ™‚ It was strange how they came about, though. I have not had markings like this since about 2008 and these did not appear straight away. On the day, my rear end was swollen and very pink. The next day it was swollen but had returned to its normal colour. On day three, the bruises appeared and it is still a little bruised now, but almost fully recovered.

The last time that I started marking again, was when I changed medication for my thick blood syndrome, in 2007 and that lasted for a little over a year. About 18 months ago, my medication was changed to a very new product, Xarelto. Perhaps this explains why I am marking again. It is a little puzzling that the bruising took over 48 hours to appear, though.

It was so nice to have a visual memento of the event, for a change ๐Ÿ™‚

My Special Belt, A Mini Review

The Belt

This is a handcrafted, old-fashioned type of leather. 120 cm long, 4 cm wide and 4 mm thick. It is heavy and very stiff.

In Play

It was, mostly, used doubled over and swung with considerable force from a standing position, I could see the person wealing it in a mirror. The impact had a lot of thump and created some noticeable deep muscle trauma, that lasted for about four days after the spanking. Surprisingly, it created a high amount of sting, as well. Although I have been spanked with this before, it was only lightly. On this occasion, it lived up to its wonderfully brutal potential.

Conclusion

I am glad that I spent the money on this ๐Ÿ™‚

The report card

This belt excelled in its task, proving to be both thuddy and stingy at the same time, whilst leaving a lasting impression on the individual on the receiving end. This belt gets a solid A. Well done.

Prefectdt

I GOT SPANKED SKIN TO SKIN

Notes – 1/ None of the images in this post are of the spanking that I received, they are just ones that I found on the internet and are there for illustrative purposes only

2/ I did ask for and receive the permission of the other person involved in this spanking to write a blog post about it, whilst not revealing her identity or location

Spanked Flesh To Flesh

I did get spanked back in June, but that spanking, like the one the year before it, was only with implements, as a lot of people are still paranoid about direct physical contact. 17 months ago, I shook hands with a friend and that was the last skin to skin contact that I had with another human being, till last week that is ๐Ÿ™‚

Employing Services

I really wanted a hand spanking and physical contact with another human being. So I approached a professional who normally offers more intimate personal services and is therefore already used to getting close up and personal with people, but was not above turning her hand to a bit of spanking. I would like to point out two things at this point, 1/ Although she offers them, I did not partake in any of her sexual services and 2/ I have been double jabbed with Pfizer, some months ago now and the lady in question also stated that she had been inoculated.

It Started With A Hand

As she sat on the bed, I bent over her lap. She was only wearing underwear (her choice) and I was bare apart from my man thong, finally my skin touched that of another human being and it felt so good. Not in a sexual way, but in a comforting, reassuring sort of way. Skin to skin contact with other people is one of those things that you do not know the importance of, until it is not available to you. Then she proceeded to spank my bottom with her hand…. heaven.

Then A Hairbrush

Unfortunately, the hand spanking did not last long. This was because, as she had pointed out to me before we started to play, she was not very experienced in spanking and my gnarly old bottom hide was hurting her hand too much. I had taken some pervertables with me and handed her a hairbrush, then resumed my position over her lap, to receive the sweet kiss of wood on flesh. This worked well for both of us

Slipper Time

By this time, I needed a higher pain level. I took a position on all fours, on the bed, while she stood and attempted to slipper me from the side, with one of the beach shoes that I told you about in

THIS REVIEW

As I said before, she is not experience in spanking techniques and struggled with this. Then I remembered a GIF, that I had posted in a previous post, the one above and suggested that we tried this position, this was new to me too. This worked so much better than I had hoped. It played well with my mind, having her buttocks pressing hard into my shoulders. I felt happily restrained by her body on top of mine and the breath restriction that it caused, intensified the feeling of pain that I perceived. She was new to this and reluctant to spank as hard as I would normally be spanked, but this seemed satisfying to both of us

It Finished With A Belting

Last year, I purchased a new belt. You can read about it in

THIS LINK

This was the first time that it was used. I lay on the bed and was belted with it, not too hard, but this leather bit hard anyway. I want to do a review of this belt, but I will wait until it has been swung by someone with more experience. Even though my spanker was not willing to get too harsh with me (sensible of her, as she had not developed the skill level to do so), the belting did hurt and I noticed that, unlike many other belts, the pain was along the entire length that it struck and not just in the last inch or two. And that concluded the spanking

And it was so good to be touched by another human being again, after nearly a year and a half of pandemic caution

Prefectdt

BEACH SHOES – A REVIEW OF A PERVERTABLE

During a short trip away, in June, I managed to get a long awaited spanking. It was about a year since my last spanking before that. Unfortunately, I do not have permission to tell you about who or where or any personal details of the other protagonist. But I did take a new pervertable with me and experienced their effect during the spanking. So I thought that I would write a review of my experience

Beach Shoes

These were competitively priced at just under 5 Euros. They have a synthetic sole and thin drainable cloth uppers. The moment that I saw them, I recognized their potential as a spanking pervertable.

Flexible and transportable

They flatten down quite thin and are far more flexible than their spanking footwear competitors, those being slippers, plimsolls and flip-flops. This means that they can be folded or even rolled for easy transport. In the winter, you could easily fit one into a large coat pocket.

Easy to hold

The flexibility of the sole makes them easy to grip, in a squeezed fashion, making them suitable for any size hand to hold

While being griped, they still present a large enough area, towards the toe of the shoe, to provide a good surface to strike the buttock with

Compared to the competition

The slipper

Slippers can vary a lot, but on the whole tend to be heavier and more substantial than the beach shoes and therefore a bit more painful in play

The Plimsoll

These tend to be the heaviest and sturdiest of the foot ware based pervertables, They are definitely more painful than the beach shoes

The flip-flop

My experience of these is that they can be a bit wimpy, the beach shoes hurt a lot more

In Play

Being spanked with a beach shoe was a satisfying experience. Whilst they are a bit too light and flexible to be very effective in an OTK situation, they work very well when the spanker is standing and taking a good swing. The soles of these shoes are a little too flexible to plant a strike directly on the buttock and are best used in a swipe through motion, similar to the one used in this GIF

The pain level that was achieved with these, whilst not as high as with a slipper or plimsoll, was significant and they caused some deep muscle trauma, that I could feel in my buttocks, when walking, for about four days afterwards

Conclusion

I was very happy to be spanked with these and intend never to wear them. If the occasion arises again, I would take them along to be applied to my rear end. All in all a very good purchase

The School Report

Whilst other shoe base pervertables might be more severe. The beach shoes more than compensate for this with their price effectiveness, easy transportability and good solid performance in a play situation. The beach shoe makes a well-earned B+

Prefectdt

SELF SPANKING ILLUSTRATED

A Little Image Related Musing On Self Spanking

I did try to find a mix of men and women self spanking for this post but I found that most of the images and GIFs of men, doing a bit of DIY discipline were of poor quality. So it’s all the Girls

And why is Prefectdt interested in this subject right now? I hear you ask

To put it honestly, I have started a regime of daily self spanking

I am doing this not for fun, not because I find it a turn on and not as a matter of self-discipline

I am doing this just to try and build up a bit of pain resilience in preparation for a real spanking, that I hope will happen in the not too distant future. I have not had a proper spanking since June 2020 and I find that I tend to lose pain tolerance with such a long absence from play and I don’t want to turn up for a spanking and then look like a bit of a wimp. So a program of self spanking it is

I hate self spanking. My body just is not designed to do it, I need a second elbow in my arm. It is annoying and offers no pleasure or relief

But hopefully, it will prepare my rear end for a proper spanking, when the opportunity arrives

I am feeling so pain slutty right now. Starting this regime though, is like a hopeful planning for the future and ouchy fun to come

Prefectdt

SAFE WORD!

Not long after moving from the UK to The Netherlands (where I lived for about three and a half years before moving to Belgium), in the early 1990’s, I realized that playing with people who’s first language was not English meant that having a simple safe word was a good idea. So I changed my safe word from “Petunias” to simply “Safe Word” and have been using that ever since. And although unless I look it up I forget it, I also try to learn “Safe Word” in other languages. Especially those languages of people that I am playing with at the time, just in case they did not recognise the English version. So here is “Safe Word” in a few other tongues.

SAFE WORD

Dutch – Veilig Woord

German – Sicherheitswort

French – Mot Sur

Spanish – Palebra Segura

Italian – Parola Sicura

Portuguese – Palavra Segura

Romanian – Ourvant De Siguranta

Hungarian – Biztonsagos Szo

Maltese – Kelma Sigura

I have to admit though that I have never played with anyone from Spain, Italy or Portugal. I just looked them up just in case they might be needed one day. And on the few occasions that I have needed play to stop I have only actually ever used the English and Dutch versions. Still it’s nice to know that, in the heat of play, if someone does not register the Safe Word, that you can say it in their language.

Prefectdt

ELECTRIFYING THE TOY BOX – A REVIEW OF MY E-STIM

What is an E-stim?

 

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The picture above shows, not only, an E-stim device but my E-stim device, which happens to be called a MyStim. An E-stim device is a fun electrical toy that is based on the medical devices, commonly known as T.E.N.S. units. They can be used at lower intensity levels for erotic stimulation. But you can crank up the dials and deliver quite a painful electro spanking or other play torture with them, if you so desire.

 

Play safely with electricity

 

As with all toys, you have to learn to play safely with an E-stim device. To put it in it’s simplest terms you have to avoid putting an electrical current on, near or through the head, neck, spine, heart or any other major abdominal organ. To make life simple, just make sure that the electrical contacts or other devices are only used from the waist down, on yourself or your partner. Now go and make yourself a really strong cup of coffee (because this video is boring enough to send you to sleep) and watch the following video on the safe use of T.E.N.S. units. It could mean the difference between having a very fun playtime and having to call an ambulance.

My MyStim

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My E-stim device came as a basic starter kit, in the nifty little carry case pictured above. In the box was the E-stim unit 4 electrical, self adhesive, reusable, contact pads, the cables to connect the pads to the device, a 9 volt battery and an instruction book. As can be seen below.

 

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The benefits of electro play

 

As a spanko, living in Belgium, a country without much of an adult spanking culture, I often find that I have to compromise how I play when interacting with people of a more BDSMy culture. This sometimes introduces me to things that I do not like.

I don’t like this kind of thing

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Such as the electric toys shown above, which just feel like cattle prods to me and I don’t go Moo. But E-stims I found to be a more fun device. Some people set the controls on low and use them for erotic stimulation. I prefer it when the knobs and dials are cranked up a bit and things get tastily painful.

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As you can see from the photo above You can use the controls to change the type of pulse, the length of pulse and the frequency of the pulses. The big round dials at the top turn the current on and off and give you the volume of stimulation or pain that you require.

I have had this devise and others like it wired up to my buttocks to give an electrical spanking, which I enjoy very much. These can also be wired up to other body parts for a more intimate form of fun torture play. I think that one of the biggest advantages of E-stim play is that it leaves no marks (except sometimes a small red patch where the contact pad was on the skin but this disappears within minutes) and your body recovers from playing almost immediately. So you can play to a high intensity with one of these devises and then don some skimpy swimwear and no one else at the pool will know that you have been playing.

 

Some other accessories that are available for E-stims

 

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The school report

 

E-stim devices receive a resounding A grade. They are well worth the effort and give very pleasing results.

 

A link to some more information on using E-stim devises, from the manufacturer on MyStim

 

Next week – Modifying my E-stim device

 

Prefectdt