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SAFE WORD!

Not long after moving from the UK to The Netherlands (where I lived for about three and a half years before moving to Belgium), in the early 1990’s, I realized that playing with people who’s first language was not English meant that having a simple safe word was a good idea. So I changed my safe word from “Petunias” to simply “Safe Word” and have been using that ever since. And although unless I look it up I forget it, I also try to learn “Safe Word” in other languages. Especially those languages of people that I am playing with at the time, just in case they did not recognise the English version. So here is “Safe Word” in a few other tongues.

SAFE WORD

Dutch – Veilig Woord

German – Sicherheitswort

French – Mot Sur

Spanish – Palebra Segura

Italian – Parola Sicura

Portuguese – Palavra Segura

Romanian – Ourvant De Siguranta

Hungarian – Biztonsagos Szo

Maltese – Kelma Sigura

I have to admit though that I have never played with anyone from Spain, Italy or Portugal. I just looked them up just in case they might be needed one day. And on the few occasions that I have needed play to stop I have only actually ever used the English and Dutch versions. Still it’s nice to know that, in the heat of play, if someone does not register the Safe Word, that you can say it in their language.

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ELECTRIFYING THE TOY BOX – A REVIEW OF MY E-STIM

What is an E-stim?

 

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The picture above shows, not only, an E-stim device but my E-stim device, which happens to be called a MyStim. An E-stim device is a fun electrical toy that is based on the medical devices, commonly known as T.E.N.S. units. They can be used at lower intensity levels for erotic stimulation. But you can crank up the dials and deliver quite a painful electro spanking or other play torture with them, if you so desire.

 

Play safely with electricity

 

As with all toys, you have to learn to play safely with an E-stim device. To put it in it’s simplest terms you have to avoid putting an electrical current on, near or through the head, neck, spine, heart or any other major abdominal organ. To make life simple, just make sure that the electrical contacts or other devices are only used from the waist down, on yourself or your partner. Now go and make yourself a really strong cup of coffee (because this video is boring enough to send you to sleep) and watch the following video on the safe use of T.E.N.S. units. It could mean the difference between having a very fun playtime and having to call an ambulance.

My MyStim

 

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My E-stim device came as a basic starter kit, in the nifty little carry case pictured above. In the box was the E-stim unit 4 electrical, self adhesive, reusable, contact pads, the cables to connect the pads to the device, a 9 volt battery and an instruction book. As can be seen below.

 

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The benefits of electro play

 

As a spanko, living in Belgium, a country without much of an adult spanking culture, I often find that I have to compromise how I play when interacting with people of a more BDSMy culture. This sometimes introduces me to things that I do not like.

I don’t like this kind of thing

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Such as the electric toys shown above, which just feel like cattle prods to me and I don’t go Moo. But E-stims I found to be a more fun device. Some people set the controls on low and use them for erotic stimulation. I prefer it when the knobs and dials are cranked up a bit and things get tastily painful.

 

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As you can see from the photo above You can use the controls to change the type of pulse, the length of pulse and the frequency of the pulses. The big round dials at the top turn the current on and off and give you the volume of stimulation or pain that you require.

I have had this devise and others like it wired up to my buttocks to give an electrical spanking, which I enjoy very much. These can also be wired up to other body parts for a more intimate form of fun torture play. I think that one of the biggest advantages of E-stim play is that it leaves no marks (except sometimes a small red patch where the contact pad was on the skin but this disappears within minutes) and your body recovers from playing almost immediately. So you can play to a high intensity with one of these devises and then don some skimpy swimwear and no one else at the pool will know that you have been playing.

 

Some other accessories that are available for E-stims

 

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The school report

 

E-stim devices receive a resounding A grade. They are well worth the effort and give very pleasing results.

 

A link to some more information on using E-stim devises, from the manufacturer on MyStim

 

Next week – Modifying my E-stim device

 

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THE BOOT PADDLE, A TOY REVIEW

Note – The photographs in this post are of paddles that are very similar to the one that I experienced but are not exactly the same as the actual paddle that was used on me

THE PADDLE

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I do not own one of these paddles but have recently had the experience of being spanked with one at the hands of Meesteres Cela,  who is a real challenge to play with and I would say a very well worth while opponent for the experienced but beginners beware. The paddle itself is a simple, shaped piece of varnished wood with a work boot style sole glued to one side.

MY EXPERIENCE

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During a very hard spanking session I was shown the paddle and asked which side I wanted to try. On one side was the work boot sole and on the other was smooth varnished wood, similar to but not as thick as a normal American wooden paddle. I am not a great fan of American paddles but have been spanked with them before and so I played safe and chose the smooth side, which gave the same brutal, all enveloping pain that a normal American paddle would. But after this I was informed that I was now going to be on the receiving end of the boot sole side of the paddle. The result was a pleasant surprise to me. This was still not a lightweight toy, it gave a lot of pain if not quite as much as an American style paddle. The type of pain was very different though and did not feel as brutal as the plain wooden side. I am presuming that this is because the pattern of the tread gave the flesh of my bottom somewhere to go, on impact.

 

CONCLUSION

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I have seen paddles like this in shops before and was very critical of them, dismissing them as a worthless novelty. But now, having experienced one I am tempted to go out and buy one of my own. I would say that it is a high end of painful toy with an interesting and enjoyable sensation, well worth your time if you are seeking a hard but satisfying spanking.

 

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If you are ever shown one of these and asked to choose which side, I recommend the boot tread side 🙂

 

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Monday Blues Busting Blistered Butts

A hard caning

061This image was found at RGE Films

And I got a well needed butt whupping this weekend

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I got Spanked :)

What I did on my holiday

Well it had been a long time since I  had the opportunity to play (far too long) and so I decided to seek professional help with this problem. I found a very nice German lady who agreed to get very nasty on my posterior. Before I proceed with this post I would like to say to say that I got exactly what I asked for, no limits where breached and I would have been disappointed if I had been spanked less severely. And so I would like to ask anyone who has a problem with the results to keep it to themselves. Everyone should play at the level that they feel comfortable with.

It was only a half hour of spanking but I did enjoy it and felt wonderful afterwards. I did not realize at the time but soon after we started to play I remembered that I had played with this Domme before, though in my defence it was a few of years ago (I soon remembered when I felt the spanking style). Her name is Mistress Eva and she does a good line in butt whuppings. I was flogged, whipped, caned, belted, birched, paddled and probably spanked with a few other things that I forget.

And I am proud to say that my old hide managed to break a rattan birch bundle (Yay! my butt). The photographs in this post where kindly taken by Mistress Eva herself. I can’t wait to play again.

Note

Confidentiality – When I play with someone, a fellow enthusiast or a payed professional, I always respect the level of privacy that they set. I do not want people thinking, that if they play with me, I will run straight to my computer and publicize the occurrence. If someone requires confidence of me I will keep my hands off my keyboard and my mouth shut, if that is what is agreed. I gained permission to post the material in this post.

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A New Pervertable

A dreaded bath brush

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This is my new pervertable, a wooden bath brush. I have been spanked with a wooden bath brush before but this is the first one that I have ever owned (I did have a plastic one but it wasn’t very good and broke easily). I have never been spanked with a brush like this one before. Take a look at it’s profile.

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As well as being 37cm long it is 2.5cm thick (that’s an inch to those of you that still work in rods and hog’s heads) at it’s impact point. I think that this is the thickest piece of wood that has ever met my rear end and it was a very different experience than I thought it was going to be. It was delivered over jeans, rather than on the bare and it felt more like being clubbed than spanked. It physically pushed me forward and the person on the delivering end decided that 10 swats was more than enough, as I was making a sort of “Ungh” sound rather than my usual “Ouch” or “Aargh”. It has left me with some DMT (Deep Muscle Trauma), that I can feel as I sit here typing this but did not leave any visible marks that lasted until the morning after. I think that this is one toy that is going to have to be experimented with and used with care. Still a good bargain, at just €4.00.

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