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Some Hot Teddy Loving

After the icky ness of my last “Other People’s kinks” post…


I thought it would be nice to explore the softer, cuter world of the plushophiles or Plushies, as they like to be called.

A Plushie is someone who likes to have sex with plush stuffed animals. This is probably one of the cutest kinks that I have ever discovered.

It is practised by both women and men

Women may use plush toys sexually by humping them or by attaching strap on dildos to the toys and riding them.

Men will often buy specially made stuffed animals that come with vagina and anus like holes, strategically sewn into the plush play thing. I have seen them for sale on Etsy.

I did stumble across a Reddit, Plushie forum, frequented by men and women and even managed to find a Plushie, music video on YouTube.

As kinks go, it all looks harmless enough to me. Even a bit of good fun, as long as it is not done in public 🙂

Even if a partner catches their other half at it

I doubt if it caused many break-ups

A few Plushies even like to dress up like their inanimate lovers.

It might be assumed that many Furries would also be Plushies


But a 1998 survey of 360 members of the furry community suggested less than one percent (that is, fewer than four people) attested to being plushophiles. So they seem to be very separate communities.

We could envy Plushies, because they are bound to have the best post-coital cuddles of any sexual fetishists.

I have known several adult women, over the years, who had beds covered with cuddly toys.

I always presumed that these were just collections. Now I am wondering if, for some of them at least, these were their personal harems 🙂


Would I try this myself? Well, if I met the right Teddy and she had a nice personality and promised not to just roll over and go to sleep, after we had finished doing the dirty… Seriously, I cannot imagine myself being the guy in the next GIF

I am not that skinny, for a start 🙂 I think that the only way that I could be tempted into partaking in this kind of thing, is if I had a sexual partner who was into it. That could lead to an interesting threesome 🙂 But this is a kink that has a certain lovability about it and I kind of feel a bit better about the world, knowing that this activity is making people happy. So, long may the Plushophiles continue to get it on with their toys, is what I say.



Ants In Your Pants Or Even Worse

Formicophilia is the sexual interest in and pleasure derived from small animals, insects, or snails crawling over one’s body.

I have to admit that I had a total WTF moment, when I found out about this fetish.

It had never occurred to me that people could get any kind of pleasure out of this. I mean, it is not like the obviously pleasurable experience of being bent over something and being hit on the bottom, until you are in excruciating pain.

It is surprising that it often involves things that bite and sting.

Could there be anything worse than leaches?

O yes, of course. Big leaches.

Yes, there are even cartoons and lots of art work about this.

And a lot of this stuff just had me saying, “You have got to be kidding me”.

At least the last image involved some nice, wholesome bondage.

I have to admit, at this point in the post, I am running out of things to say.

Except perhaps to ask if someone can please get me a bucket?

I do notice that it always seems to involve icky creepy crawlies, never nice creatures, like butterflies or ladybirds. I did manage to find a YouTube video about this fetish.

Bug Play On YouTube


Until the weekend gone, I was blissfully unaware that this fetish even existed and I am wondering if I would not be happier, if that was still my knowledgeable state. Would I try this myself? I think that I will have to answer with a big fat NO. I get creeped out when I find one or two creepy crawlies on me during my post work shower, which is something that I just regard as a normal, occupational hazard, in my line of work. To those that do practice this, I have two things to say to them.

1/ Please ensure that these creatures are returned to their natural place of existence, in an unharmed state, once you have finished playing.


2/ Stay a long, long way away from me when you are doing this, please.



Wet And Messy (WAM) Or Sploshing Kink

I first heard of this kink some time ago, when it was mentioned on some other spanking blogs and was a little dismissive about it as a real kink. But having done a little research on it and seen just what extremes it is taken to, I reevaluated and decided that it most definitely is a kink. It is just so messy.

Then a search was made for GIFs on this kink and I thought that I had accidentally typed “Three Stooges GIF” into the search engine.

This fetish revolves about getting a turn on from liberally spreading wet or soggy food stuffs over one or both, or more, consenting players.

Or sometimes just parts of another person.

Or even in their garments.

When I first heard about this, I presumed that something tasty would be lightly dribbled on a relevant body part and then licked off. Now I realize that is the equivalent of that vanilla couple, who indulged in a little fingertip, patty cake spanking once and claimed that they knew about spanking as a fetish. My attitude made me realize, that when it came to sploshing, I could not be more vanilla.

There are clips sites and videos for sale on this subject. Most of them seem to be F/f or M/m

But there seems to be a lot of amateur and semi amateur material from male/female couples and groups.

And it does seem to be a fetish that is enjoyed by the type of people that have a good sense of humour.

I even found some people offering professional sploshing services.


This most definitely is a fully fledged fetish, in its own right. And many people show an interest in practising and viewing this fetish. Would I try this myself? Provisionally, yes, but it would have to be of the desire of the other person involved and at least one of us would have to have had a substantial lottery win. Because we would have to pay for someone else to do the post-coital clean up. There is no way that I am dealing with that kind of mess.

Until then, I will stick to my own version of sploshing




Real Life People Being Sex Dolls

WARNING – There is only one GIF in this post, but it is of a more explicit nature, than the GIFs that I normally post. The GIF will be the last thing in this post, and there is nothing else to read or see after that. So if you do not want to see it, there will be a second warning before the GIF and you can refrain from seeing it, if you wish.

This kink revolves around one partner, during an act of sexual intercourse, pretending to be an inanimate, sex doll, even though they are a fully functioning human being.

This is a little confusing, as most of us would presume that people engage in sexual activities with a doll because, for whatever reason, they have no sexual partner available to interact with, at that time. So why get a real life person to act like an inanimate copy of a real life person, when they have a real life person, willing to be their partner? Or is it, perhaps the case, that it is the person playing the doll has a fetish about being treated as an inanimate object?

Some people even go so far as to dress themselves in sex doll outfits

It does look like it takes some effort to get into these outfits


As long as all the participants are consenting adults, I cannot see any harm in this activity. But it does seem hard to see why this is a turn on for some folks. The only reason for this kink, that I can see, is the desire to either objectify a person or be objectified by another person.

Would I Do It?

I would never initiate this kind of sex with a partner, but if a sexual partner was the one who showed an interest in doing this, I would be willing to give it a try. That is, of course, as long as I was the one to play the part of the inanimate doll. My submissive nature would make me feel uncomfortable using another person as if they were a lifeless doll.

WARNING – The following GIF is of a more intimate nature than those that are normally used on this blog. Please look away, if you do not want to see this kind of sex doll action in progress.







This kink definitely falls under the BDSM banner. But it is one that I suspect most of us have never tried.

If you want to get into martial arts, but don’t like hitting people, this is one method, that the more pacifistic of us could use to join in.

Most of the material, that I found, seemed to be F/m orientated. But other variations seem to be available too.

The severity, of this play is highly varied and ranges from “OMG” to pretty symbolic play.

It does seem to appeal to all sexual orientations.

Sometimes it seems specific to certain and various, areas of the human body.

For the more serious players, good training and the ability to tense muscles, for protection, is a must.

And it does seem to be popular with kick boxers too.

In Conclusion

At it’s harshest levels, this is a kink that should only be practised by the very well-trained and experienced. At gentler levels, it should be available to all that want to give it a go.

Would I do it? From most of what I have seen, that would be a big fat NO. But if the dominant were to only target my buttocks, I could imagine myself, dangling by my wrists, on a rope, getting a jolly good ass whupping. Might be fun. You never know until you try it. But as for having my face, torso or genitalia assaulted in this way, that would bring on a good firm SAFE WORD!



When I hear about women humping, I usually think of something happening similar to the GIF below

A grown up girl rubbing herself on a pillow, piece of furniture or the body part of another person in order to reach a satisfying end. But this post is not about that type of “Humping”

Butt Humping

Recently, I have become aware of this kind of Butt Humping

Where a woman bangs her crotch, quite aggressively sometimes, against the recipient’s buttocks

I have to admit that I became fascinated by this. I am not sure how effective this is for the humper, in achieving a satisfying end and I am wrongly equipped to find out for myself. If I did try to be a humper, I think that this would only result in some self-inflicted CBT

It only seems to be a rewarding activity for the humper. There does not seem to be any sexual gratification for the humpee. Unless it is between two girls and they want to take turns

Many times, it does seem to be an act of sacrifice, on the part of the recipient

From what I have found so far, this does seem to be an exclusively, girl on girl activity. I cannot understand why. There must be lots of guys, even the most vanilla ones, who would not mind letting themselves be humped like this, in order to please their partner. After all, it does not involve any sort of penetration

Butt Humping does not even require nudity sometimes. Although, I have to admit, that I find it more interesting to watch when a certain amount of clothing is lost. Or perhaps that is just me deserving to get spanked for this desire 🙂


Normally, in an “Other People’s Kinks” post, this is the point where I usually say something like “I am happy for those that enjoy this kind of thing, but it is not for me”. Not this time, though. I seriously want a woman to Hump my Butt. Especially after my rear end has received a hearty thrashing. The thought of a woman pounding away at my battered rear end, reawakening the feeling of the strapping, caning or other punishment, that she has meted out to me is highly appealing. As well as having the advantage of being a physical way of enforcing mental dominance over me. Showing me who is in charge. Letting me know, in no uncertain terms, that she is the Boss

Well, a guy can dream 🙂