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MISTRESS TRAINING AND SUB/DOM LOVE – SOME VIEWING TO START THE WEEKEND

Asking For Feedback

I am trying out an alternative video platform and I don’t know if it will work for everybody. So if these videos don’t work for you or the videos or platform are blocked in your country, I would be very grateful if you could tell me about any viewing problems that you are experiencing.

Caning Training

An experienced Domme gives instruction, with the aid of a live submissive, to a trainee Domme, on impact play and some other painful play methods.

It’s A Domme/sub Affair

A Dominatrix and her submissive share and insight into their D/s relationship.

I hope that you could all see those and enjoyed them. Have a great weekend.

Prefectdt

CAR SPANKING POSSIBILITIES

I tend to be a bit outdoorsy, but at this time of year, when the weather seems to alternate between mild and soggy and freezing cold, here in Northern Europe, I spend more of my free time indoors than I would prefer. It is nice looking at some loverly, winter landscapes, from the dry, warmth of a vehicle. It looks like some folks enjoy doing this and then stopping, in a secluded spot, to enjoy a quick spanking. Before getting back to the snug, comfort of their mode of transport.

Just time for a quick switching

We decided to bring a friend along for the drive

At least the heater will keep parts of them warm

They might risk scratching the paintwork

With both doors open, at least a little breeze can freshen the car

Thelma and Louise thought that this was a better idea, than driving off that cliff

A brisk spanking in the crisp winter air and then back to sitting uncomfortably, in a warm car?

I think that I have had worse ideas 🙂

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SHORT TAIL WHIPS

Researching Short Tail Whips

A few weeks ago, a Thursday’s Animated Thrashing featured a Domme wealing a short tailed whip. This brought back some good memories. And I decided to research this subject a little. You can see the originator post, for this post, through the following link.

THURSDAY’S SHORT TAIL WHIPPING

I am not going to claim to be a great expert on being whipped with this kind of toy. I have only been whipped with one short single tail by one person. But I was whipped by that person several times. The whip that I was on the receiving end of was a thick, semi-flexible, blunt ended whip, similar to the one in the image below.

It was applied usually to my bottom, but sometimes across my shoulders, in a strike and sweep motion. Usually this happened whilst I was prone, but sometimes standing. It was a similar delivery to the one in the GIF below.

The strike sensation was not unlike that of a cane and the sweep motion added a sort of burn to the impact site. This is a very special sensation and it can only be hoped that all impact play submissives get to experience that feeling, at least once in their play lives.

Looking around, it became clear that not all short single tails are the same, some have one or more tongues on the end and some are more flexible than the one that I was whipped with. And some are ended with a small leather ball. Also, there seems to be a lot of variety in the styles of application of this kind of toy. So let us have a little exploration on the variations in the short tail world.

This Domme is whipping from in front of the Sub. The skill to remain accurate, whilst not being able to see the impact zone, has to be admired.

This whip is being used in a “Florentine” manner. Not my kind of thing but it is nice to see that there is an alternative to floggers, for this kind of play.

These two Dommes seem to be using their whips more like short bull whips.

These whips look a lot more flexible than the one that I experienced

The following two GIFs Show the whip being applied in a different proportion to the way that I was whipped with less strike and more sweep in the motion

If anyone else has experiences of giving or receiving short tail whippings and how they felt about this. Please do share your thoughts with us.

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MISTRESS CELA GAVE ME A DAMN GOOD SPANKING – AND A LITTLE ON POST SPANKING BUTT RECOVERY

Hot And Harsh

It is Tuesday evening, as I type this and I have returned from my short trip away. Whilst away, I did receive a very memorable spanking from the wonderfully strict person that you see in the photograph above. She has a sort of information page that you can see through the following link.

MEESTERES CELA

I have been spanked by her before and returned to look for her, several times, for another spanking, as the first one had been so memorable. She was sadly not there as she had returned to her home country and trained in a vanilla skill (I did not obtain permission to tell you what that is) and it is nice to know that she has other career options to pursue, if she so chooses. But luckily for me, has returned to Belgium. And a serious as well as a very enjoyable spanking she gave me too. Three days later, my buttocks are still a little tender and definitely ouchy, if I poke them.

What With?

Her nice boot paddle came into play, but not until after I had been hand spanked. The hand spanking and some buttock massaging also continued between the use of toys.

She also caned me, with two canes, as well as giving me a taste of a cane birch bundle, part of which broke on my bum 🙂 A wrapped fibreglass rod (I think) and a small flogger also came into play.

She also spanked me with some toys that I took along.

My new Rudis

My favourite spanking belt

And some short Hazel (Corylus avellana) switches, That I freshly cut from a coppiced Hazel tree, that I have in my back garden.

If you want to see more on these, you can scroll through my list of Pevertables posts, through the following link.

MY PERVERTABLES POSTS

I especially enjoyed getting belted by Cela. Although I found my last whooping with this belt highly gratifying, it was not until it was in the hands of a knowledgable and experienced Top, that I could experience its full potential.

If you are a bottom or sub who enjoys a spanking from a highly competent professional Top or Domme and find yourself in Antwerp, I highly recommend that you seek out the services of Mistress Cela. But be honest with her about your experience level, if you ask for a hard spanking, it will be hard, if you have not been spanked that much, tell her that and give her a chance to find your tolerance level.

A Picture Of My Ass, Spanked By Cela And Of Its Recovery

Mistress Cela was kind enough to take the picture above, of my freshly spanked rear end. She also enquired about how long I would expect to show marks from this type of spanking. So for the past three days I have taken a picture of my bottom and will send her a link to this post, so that she can see for her self. All images were taken between 4 and 6 O’ clock, in the evening.

The day after Cela spanked me

Two days after my spanking

Three days after my spanking

I think that by day four or five, I will have a bottom that looks like it has returned to normal. But I can feel that the Deep Muscle Trauma is going to last longer than that. Which makes me happy 🙂

Thank You, Mistress Cela For Such A Wonderful Memory

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I’M THINKING OF MAKING A PADDLE, BUT WHAT KIND SHOULD I MAKE

Advice Welcome

I have and still do own lots of pervertables that double as paddles of sorts, bath brushes, rulers, hairbrushes and other things. Including my latest pervertable, that you can see in…

THIS LINK

But I have never owned an implement that looks like a dedicated spanking paddle. And I do like to make my own toys on occasion. It does seem that a dedicated spanking paddle would be within my capabilities to manufacture. At this stage, it is worth pondering the alternatives, before committing to spending the time and money on getting to the end result. So I thought it would be nice if I could get some advice from those of you that have more experience of dedicated spanking paddles, than I do. Here are my questions.

1/ What type of wood is best for a spanking paddle?

2/ Should I start with a smaller, less ambitious paddle, before making a big one?

3/ If I go for a large one, what dimensions (length, width, thickness) are best?

4/ Would you recommend one with holes in or not?

5/ Is a More Oriental style paddle a good idea?

6/ Is there anything else, that I should take into consideration, that I have not thought about?

Any thoughts, knowledge, insights, recommendations or experiences are welcome. At the start of a build project, like this, experience of paddles owned, been on the receiving/giving end of, or even built yourself, are very welcome and could save me from mistakes and tears of frustration. Tears from the paddling, instead would be the ideal outcome 🙂

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PILLOW HUGGING AND SPANKING

It’s A Thing I Do

At the start of a spanking, before the magic dust starts filling my mind and it just hurts and I am thinking “Why the hell do I do this”, If there is a pillow or cushion within reach I tend to grab it and hug it to my chest, like in the photograph below.

I am not sure why, but I find it comforting and it helps me get through the part when the pain is horrible, that you need to go through, before the pain becomes good and all that I want it to be.

Sometimes this is not possible

As you might need your hands and arms to stop your head banging of the floor, when OTK.

And other types of hugs are nice, after a spanking

Some spankees prefer to have something to grab, rather than hug. Sofa cushions are excellent for this, as is illustrated in…

This Photo

Or in this GIF

But I think that I have found my ultimate spanking cushion to hug

Here it is

Just think of all the hugging options, that it can offer

It’s time to go shopping 🙂

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