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SCARY GIANT CHINESE PADDLES

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LA FESSEE QUOTIDIENNE

I searched around for the Chinese adult spanking world, a while ago, for a post about international spanking. There seems to be a lot of stuff around from China, and the Spanko scene there looks strong. But the quality of the images and videos was not good, so I gave up on that. But I did find a lot of historic and drama productions, featuring the use of paddles for judicial purposes.

They looked very big and painful

It looks like they were used for punishment of adult transgressors of the law

There seems to be plenty of artistic representations of these paddlings, both from that era…

and modern imaginings

The Chinese producers of historical dramas show these punishments a lot

Would I try being spanked with one of these paddles? I think that I might agree to have just one test swat, just to satisfy my curiosity, but I suspect that the paddle would prove to be beyond my endurance level.

An Example Of A Judicial Paddling In A Chinese Drama

I wonder what these paddles were made of?

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PRACTICALLY CANING

Information Is Always Useful

Today I thought that we might take a look at a couple of useful, informative videos about canes.

A nice light caning technique – Ramping Up

This is not the kind of caning that I usually like to receive, but I do have my soft days and a lot of people prefer the play rather than severe pain. And there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. This video has a nice, pleasant light caning technique.

Variety of canes

Canes come in a lot of variable lengths, sizes and flexibilities. This video explores a few of the types available.

I hope you all found those useful

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TIS THE SEASON TO BE BIRCHING, TRA LA LA LA LA, LA LA LA LA

At Least In The Northern Hemisphere

You might have noticed that there has been a bit of a birching theme, on this blog, since Saturday. I thought that I would bring that to an end today with a selection of images and a few thoughts on the subject.

I Wonder If Birches Turn Out Better, If You Get Naked To Make Them?

I will have to try it one day. Just to find out for myself 🙂

But Spring Is The Best Time Of Year To Make Birches

As birches are best made out of the newer growth of fast-growing trees and shrubs, you have the whole of last year’s new growth to play with.

And as most of the plants have not budded yet, you do not have the tedious task of picking all the leaves off the branches, before making the birch.

In spring, just prior to the buds bursting, the amount of sap running into the branches tends to increase. Making the branches a little heavier and more flexible than normal.

I Have Only Experienced Three Types Of Birch

There are dozens of trees and shrubs, that you can make birch rods out of, but I have only ever been on the receiving end of three of these.

Siberian dog wood birch

Although these look big, red and mean, these really are the birch for wimps. A spanker can thrash away with one of these and it is one of the easiest toys for the recipient to experience. The pain level is not high at all.

HEAVY DOGWOOD BIRCH

Willow birch

These are very ouchy and may be beyond the limits of a new spankee. But an experienced player will probably enjoy this toy. The type of pain sensation is special, even a bit yummy.

WILLOW BIRCH

Hazel wood birch

I would describe being spanked with one of these as one of the most challenging spankee experiences that you can have. It is incredibly painful and it does not surprise me that they used to be used for real judicial punishments, in the bad old days.

And Just A Few More Birching Images To Enjoy

And that concludes this little miniseries of birch related postings on this blog… For now 🙂

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SOME KINKY ENTERTAINMENT TO EASE YOU INTO THE WEEKEND

First Some Cross Eyed Fun

regular visitors to this blog might remember the post that contained the videos of the first two parts of the tongue in cheek, adventures of the protagonist of the following video. For those that missed it, I will link it after the video.

The cross-eyed Dominatrix, part 3

THE POST WITH PARTS 1 AND 2 OF THE CROSS EYED DOMINATRIX IN IT

And Some Serious Stuff

First up, this is a very interesting insight into caning, from a seasoned professional. There is no actual play in the video, but it is still worth watching for the psychology and thoughts on caning. It features Ruby Marks.

Thoughts about the cane

And now we have one of the most interesting interviews, that I have ever seen, from a professional Dominatrix. How she got started, interactions with clients, practical considerations and much more.

The life and play times of Vivienne L’Amour

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MISTRESS TRAINING AND SUB/DOM LOVE – SOME VIEWING TO START THE WEEKEND

Asking For Feedback

I am trying out an alternative video platform and I don’t know if it will work for everybody. So if these videos don’t work for you or the videos or platform are blocked in your country, I would be very grateful if you could tell me about any viewing problems that you are experiencing.

Caning Training

An experienced Domme gives instruction, with the aid of a live submissive, to a trainee Domme, on impact play and some other painful play methods.

It’s A Domme/sub Affair

A Dominatrix and her submissive share and insight into their D/s relationship.

I hope that you could all see those and enjoyed them. Have a great weekend.

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CAR SPANKING POSSIBILITIES

I tend to be a bit outdoorsy, but at this time of year, when the weather seems to alternate between mild and soggy and freezing cold, here in Northern Europe, I spend more of my free time indoors than I would prefer. It is nice looking at some loverly, winter landscapes, from the dry, warmth of a vehicle. It looks like some folks enjoy doing this and then stopping, in a secluded spot, to enjoy a quick spanking. Before getting back to the snug, comfort of their mode of transport.

Just time for a quick switching

We decided to bring a friend along for the drive

At least the heater will keep parts of them warm

They might risk scratching the paintwork

With both doors open, at least a little breeze can freshen the car

Thelma and Louise thought that this was a better idea, than driving off that cliff

A brisk spanking in the crisp winter air and then back to sitting uncomfortably, in a warm car?

I think that I have had worse ideas 🙂

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