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I DIDN’T GET SPANKED AND THEN I DID GET SPANKED – AND A MINI REVIEW

Happy To Report, I Got A Properly Harsh Butt Whupping

That is not me in the image above, that is just there as an illustration

A spanking did not happen

I went away on a little trip, just over a week ago, to meet up with someone who might have been a potential play partner, but that fell through. Not the first time that has happened this year.

And then a spanking did happen

Feeling frustrated and needing what I have not had for some time now, a jolly good bottom warming, instead I managed to hastily arrange a pay to play. I cannot go into too much detail about that, as permission of the spanker was not obtained. She probably would have given permission, but I was so high, at the end of the spanking, that I just plain forgot to ask her.

Although the person concerned does not usually hand out bottom spankings (this was arranged in a very short time), she had experience in other forms of BDSM impact play and these skills transferred well to the activity of spanking. I got the hardest and most enjoyable spanking that I have had in about four years. It was bliss. And the special belt that I have, got it’s first proper usage. There will be a mini review of that at the end of this post. If you want to know more about the belt, click on the following link.

AN EXPENSIVE PERVERTABLE

And I got marks

Yup, that horrible hairy thing is my battered butt 🙂 It was strange how they came about, though. I have not had markings like this since about 2008 and these did not appear straight away. On the day, my rear end was swollen and very pink. The next day it was swollen but had returned to its normal colour. On day three, the bruises appeared and it is still a little bruised now, but almost fully recovered.

The last time that I started marking again, was when I changed medication for my thick blood syndrome, in 2007 and that lasted for a little over a year. About 18 months ago, my medication was changed to a very new product, Xarelto. Perhaps this explains why I am marking again. It is a little puzzling that the bruising took over 48 hours to appear, though.

It was so nice to have a visual memento of the event, for a change 🙂

My Special Belt, A Mini Review

The Belt

This is a handcrafted, old-fashioned type of leather. 120 cm long, 4 cm wide and 4 mm thick. It is heavy and very stiff.

In Play

It was, mostly, used doubled over and swung with considerable force from a standing position, I could see the person wealing it in a mirror. The impact had a lot of thump and created some noticeable deep muscle trauma, that lasted for about four days after the spanking. Surprisingly, it created a high amount of sting, as well. Although I have been spanked with this before, it was only lightly. On this occasion, it lived up to its wonderfully brutal potential.

Conclusion

I am glad that I spent the money on this 🙂

The report card

This belt excelled in its task, proving to be both thuddy and stingy at the same time, whilst leaving a lasting impression on the individual on the receiving end. This belt gets a solid A. Well done.

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BEACH SHOES – A REVIEW OF A PERVERTABLE

During a short trip away, in June, I managed to get a long awaited spanking. It was about a year since my last spanking before that. Unfortunately, I do not have permission to tell you about who or where or any personal details of the other protagonist. But I did take a new pervertable with me and experienced their effect during the spanking. So I thought that I would write a review of my experience

Beach Shoes

These were competitively priced at just under 5 Euros. They have a synthetic sole and thin drainable cloth uppers. The moment that I saw them, I recognized their potential as a spanking pervertable.

Flexible and transportable

They flatten down quite thin and are far more flexible than their spanking footwear competitors, those being slippers, plimsolls and flip-flops. This means that they can be folded or even rolled for easy transport. In the winter, you could easily fit one into a large coat pocket.

Easy to hold

The flexibility of the sole makes them easy to grip, in a squeezed fashion, making them suitable for any size hand to hold

While being griped, they still present a large enough area, towards the toe of the shoe, to provide a good surface to strike the buttock with

Compared to the competition

The slipper

Slippers can vary a lot, but on the whole tend to be heavier and more substantial than the beach shoes and therefore a bit more painful in play

The Plimsoll

These tend to be the heaviest and sturdiest of the foot ware based pervertables, They are definitely more painful than the beach shoes

The flip-flop

My experience of these is that they can be a bit wimpy, the beach shoes hurt a lot more

In Play

Being spanked with a beach shoe was a satisfying experience. Whilst they are a bit too light and flexible to be very effective in an OTK situation, they work very well when the spanker is standing and taking a good swing. The soles of these shoes are a little too flexible to plant a strike directly on the buttock and are best used in a swipe through motion, similar to the one used in this GIF

The pain level that was achieved with these, whilst not as high as with a slipper or plimsoll, was significant and they caused some deep muscle trauma, that I could feel in my buttocks, when walking, for about four days afterwards

Conclusion

I was very happy to be spanked with these and intend never to wear them. If the occasion arises again, I would take them along to be applied to my rear end. All in all a very good purchase

The School Report

Whilst other shoe base pervertables might be more severe. The beach shoes more than compensate for this with their price effectiveness, easy transportability and good solid performance in a play situation. The beach shoe makes a well-earned B+

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FIRM HAND SPANKING – A PAYSITE REVIEW

Note

I review as a paying customer – I do not except free memberships in exchange for a review. I am not participating in any affiliate programs and make no money from sites that I review. I paid for a thirty five day membership of Firm Hand Spanking and am reviewing it as a paying customer.

Click on this link Firm Hand Spanking to go to the website.

Introduction

Firm Hand Spanking is a spanking clips and photograph spanking website that features productions from both the USA and the UK. It features hand and implement spanking given by men and women but always has female performers on the receiving end. Although the scenes on this site are mostly in a set in a contemporary era, there are some in historical settings.

Costs

I paid for a 35 day, non recurring membership at a rate of $29.95 (US Dollars). Rates range from $24.95 for a recurring 30 day membership to $149.00 for a 365 day non recurring membership. There is a choice of recurring and non recurring membership rates.

Technical Stuff

Photographs are easily downloaded, either individually or as sets in a ZIP folder. The clips are available in lower or high quality downloads, so you can make the choice between quality and disc space usage. The spanking scenes are presented in a series of clips, of which several new clips are available each week. Each clip is accompanied by a selection of photographs.

Content

The first thing to say about the content on this site is that there is a hell of a lot of it. Some of the content was shot a long time ago, so if you want to follow a performer over a period of time this is a good site to join, if they have worked for this producer.

I get the impression that a lot of different people write and produce the scenes presented on this site. This does give a nice variety to the style of the productions available here. There does seem to be a formula for using the same spanking implements in all the scenarios both in the USA and the UK productions, giving a sense of continuity most of the time but after watching many of the clips I did feel that having the odd guest appearance of an, occasional, unusual toy might be a good idea to break the implement monotony.

The vast majority of the scenarios where well shot and edited and also had good sound quality.

There are some clip series that had very interesting story lines along with others that just had a quick excuse to get right to the spanking action. And so whichever you prefer you will be well catered for on this site.

Having productions from two countries also keeps things fresh and varied.

A lot of the clips have slow motion replays of the spanking at the end. These can be interesting but after a while I found myself skipping these parts.

Performers

There are many well known performers on this site and plenty that I had never seen before, meaning that you can follow your favourites and get introduced to some unfamiliar faces and rear ends. This site introduced me to two people that particularly impressed me with their ability as scene worthy Tops. They are Alison Miller and John Friday, both of whom I would like to see more of but I have never heard of them working for anyone else. All the performers showed their faces and their abilities to contribute to a spanking production.

Extras

There are some interviews available on this site and occasionally some out takes are included at the end of clips. These are a little thin on the ground and I would have liked to have seen more. I think that there is great potential for some special out take clips to be provided in the content.

Conclusion

I was very happy with being a member at this site and thought that it was good value for money because of the amount of content it makes available to it’s members. Almost all of the spanking action was worth while and ranged from moderately harsh to very harsh but without any blood being spilled. Some of the story lines held great interest and I am glad to have experienced them. On the critical side, I would say that varying the range of spanking toys occasionally would be a good thing and a little less slowmo replay and a few more out takes would make things a little more interesting.

The Report Card

Firm Hand Spanking performs well in class and assessments and has earned a good solid B+. Hard work has produced a lot of high quality results and it only lacks in a little variety of materials it has used for it’s submissions.

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ELECTRIFYING THE TOY BOX – A REVIEW OF MY E-STIM

What is an E-stim?

 

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The picture above shows, not only, an E-stim device but my E-stim device, which happens to be called a MyStim. An E-stim device is a fun electrical toy that is based on the medical devices, commonly known as T.E.N.S. units. They can be used at lower intensity levels for erotic stimulation. But you can crank up the dials and deliver quite a painful electro spanking or other play torture with them, if you so desire.

 

Play safely with electricity

 

As with all toys, you have to learn to play safely with an E-stim device. To put it in it’s simplest terms you have to avoid putting an electrical current on, near or through the head, neck, spine, heart or any other major abdominal organ. To make life simple, just make sure that the electrical contacts or other devices are only used from the waist down, on yourself or your partner. Now go and make yourself a really strong cup of coffee (because this video is boring enough to send you to sleep) and watch the following video on the safe use of T.E.N.S. units. It could mean the difference between having a very fun playtime and having to call an ambulance.

My MyStim

 

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My E-stim device came as a basic starter kit, in the nifty little carry case pictured above. In the box was the E-stim unit 4 electrical, self adhesive, reusable, contact pads, the cables to connect the pads to the device, a 9 volt battery and an instruction book. As can be seen below.

 

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The benefits of electro play

 

As a spanko, living in Belgium, a country without much of an adult spanking culture, I often find that I have to compromise how I play when interacting with people of a more BDSMy culture. This sometimes introduces me to things that I do not like.

I don’t like this kind of thing

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Such as the electric toys shown above, which just feel like cattle prods to me and I don’t go Moo. But E-stims I found to be a more fun device. Some people set the controls on low and use them for erotic stimulation. I prefer it when the knobs and dials are cranked up a bit and things get tastily painful.

 

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As you can see from the photo above You can use the controls to change the type of pulse, the length of pulse and the frequency of the pulses. The big round dials at the top turn the current on and off and give you the volume of stimulation or pain that you require.

I have had this devise and others like it wired up to my buttocks to give an electrical spanking, which I enjoy very much. These can also be wired up to other body parts for a more intimate form of fun torture play. I think that one of the biggest advantages of E-stim play is that it leaves no marks (except sometimes a small red patch where the contact pad was on the skin but this disappears within minutes) and your body recovers from playing almost immediately. So you can play to a high intensity with one of these devises and then don some skimpy swimwear and no one else at the pool will know that you have been playing.

 

Some other accessories that are available for E-stims

 

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The school report

 

E-stim devices receive a resounding A grade. They are well worth the effort and give very pleasing results.

 

A link to some more information on using E-stim devises, from the manufacturer on MyStim

 

Next week – Modifying my E-stim device

 

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BONDING – A TV SERIES REVIEW

What is Bonding

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Bonding is a recently released comedy TV series produced by and available on Netflix. It’s two main characters are Tiff, played by Zoe Levin and Pete, played by Brendan Scannell. Tiff is a University/College student, who is financing her studies by working as a Dominatrix. The gay character of Pete has known Tiff since their childhood schooldays and is employed by her as as an assistant/bodyguard/general go fer. Pete is also a wannabe comedian. The series revolves around the adventures of this dynamic duo, both inside the world of professional BDSM and in more mainstream life. The series is loosely based on the experiences of the shows main production initiator, Rightor Doyle and his time as an assistant to a Dominatrix.

 

My opinion of Bonding as a TV comedy

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On the whole I am glad that someone attempted to tackle this subject in such a way but I do believe that this is a bit of a failed effort, at the moment. As a comedy series, it cannot be expected that the story lines are fully reflective of the Professional BDSM scene but the story lines, in this case, are just too far from reality to have any believability. Also, as a comedy series, it needs to be a bit funnier.

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I have a little theory as to what might have gone wrong. Unlike on this side of the Atlantic, comedy series from North America are usually written by teams of writers, rather than individuals. I suspect that Rightor Doyle started of with a good idea, based on real life experiences and then a lot of people, without a clue about this world, started to stick their grimy fingers into the pie and ruined the plot lines. Thus causing ludicrous scenes, such as Penguin Wrestling. If any members of the Penguin Wrestling community would like to disagree with me about this, please leave a comment at the end of this post.

 

A nasty truth included in Bonding

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And that brutal truth is the high level of inexcusable Misandry, that is found within the BDSM and Spanking communities. In this case we see the character of Tiff swooping into a situation, where a female class mate is being victimised by a sexual predator and heroically saving  her, well done Tiff. During the series the same character meets a couple who become her clients. The female of this couple is violently and without consent, abusing her husband. Not only does no one feel that they should intervene in this situation but it is worked into the comedy element of the story line and normalised within the series. I find this to be a highly unacceptable attitude to adopt in this form of media.

 

The school report

Bonding is only worth a D- including a note to report to the study of the Head Mistress.

This series shows great potential but needs to make more effort and resist being distracted by those who have no or little personal experience of the subject matter.

 

Will there be a second series?

Although this comedy program has been highly slated, both from inside the kinky community and in the mainstream arena, it did get very good viewing figures and so a second series may be possible. Personally, I would like to see a second series. There are many examples of comedy series that where judged to be failures after the first series, Blackadder jumps to mind, but proceeded to become something special, in later series. I think with a more knowledgeable writing team and a bit less idiocy and more reality, this could become something worth watching, both for the Kinksters of this world and the Vanilla community.

The trailer

 

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THE BOOT PADDLE, A TOY REVIEW

Note – The photographs in this post are of paddles that are very similar to the one that I experienced but are not exactly the same as the actual paddle that was used on me

THE PADDLE

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I do not own one of these paddles but have recently had the experience of being spanked with one at the hands of Meesteres Cela,  who is a real challenge to play with and I would say a very well worth while opponent for the experienced but beginners beware. The paddle itself is a simple, shaped piece of varnished wood with a work boot style sole glued to one side.

MY EXPERIENCE

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During a very hard spanking session I was shown the paddle and asked which side I wanted to try. On one side was the work boot sole and on the other was smooth varnished wood, similar to but not as thick as a normal American wooden paddle. I am not a great fan of American paddles but have been spanked with them before and so I played safe and chose the smooth side, which gave the same brutal, all enveloping pain that a normal American paddle would. But after this I was informed that I was now going to be on the receiving end of the boot sole side of the paddle. The result was a pleasant surprise to me. This was still not a lightweight toy, it gave a lot of pain if not quite as much as an American style paddle. The type of pain was very different though and did not feel as brutal as the plain wooden side. I am presuming that this is because the pattern of the tread gave the flesh of my bottom somewhere to go, on impact.

 

CONCLUSION

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I have seen paddles like this in shops before and was very critical of them, dismissing them as a worthless novelty. But now, having experienced one I am tempted to go out and buy one of my own. I would say that it is a high end of painful toy with an interesting and enjoyable sensation, well worth your time if you are seeking a hard but satisfying spanking.

 

AND

If you are ever shown one of these and asked to choose which side, I recommend the boot tread side 🙂

 

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