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COOL CLEAR KINKY WATER

Hot And Wet

It is hot in Belgium, at the moment, damn hot. This week, I have been getting up at stupid O’ Clock in the morning, to go to work early, so that we can finish before the afternoon sun kicks the heat up to OMG Celsius. As a result, I am dog-tired and all I can think about is getting in, on or by cool water. Beach, river, pool, bathtub, I don’t care. So, let’s see if that desire can be imagined, but with a kinky tilt to it.

That should give satisfaction to a wide range of tastes

🙂

Time to go now

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WHAT I DID ON MY HOLIDAY

While I Was Gone

Well, my holiday did not go to plan, I was supposed to be on a trip to the UK, but that fell through. So I decided to stay in Belgium for this one. I headed south, intending to end up in the Ardennes. On the way, I stopped off for a day to visit a castle.

The castle had a chapel in it, that looked like it had been designed by a religious spanko.

That is not a picture of it. If things go to plan, there will be a special post about that at a later date, including my own photos. Then the weather got so hot, I changed plans and headed for the coast.

There I visited an open air museum and after that just chilled for a few days, enjoying the sea breezes and the coastline. Towards the end of my travels, I headed off to get spanked and took along a fun toy or two with me.

That is not a photo of my spanking, but it did involve a caning and I have permission to tell you about it this time. There will be a post about that sometime in the next two weeks.

Whilst at the coast, I took a smartphone photo, that I am a bit proud of. I think I could have improved on the image, if I had my real camera with me, but at the time all I had was my phone. Considering the limitations of a phone snap, I think that it turned out all right. What do you think?

Fun break over. Back to real life now.

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SPANKING THERAPY, HOW CAN IT HELP?

Spanking Used In Medical Therapy

Thanks to Mitch Philbin, of All Things Spanking, for doing a post about this. To See the post and get a link to the genuine, medical article, please follow the link below

SPANKING THERAPY AT ALL THINGS SPANKING

I thought that it might be fun to pick a few statements from the article and illustrate them, with photographs and GIFs, for your enjoyment.

Spanking therapy uses spanking as a form of release. People may choose to take part in spanking therapy to release stress and responsibility, explore power roles, or work through negative emotions or trauma.

Spanking therapy may be an option for anyone of an appropriate age to take part in consensual BDSM practices.

People may wish to find a spanking therapist or learn how to safely carry out spanking therapy with a partner.

What is the purpose of spanking therapy?

Power play: People may find it sexually arousing to play with power roles, such as becoming dominant or submissive. Others may also find it freeing to release responsibility and power in a controlled environment.

Stress release: Individuals may find similar benefits from spanking therapy as those from mindful activities, such as meditation.

The authors also note that some scientific theories suggest that SM practices, such as spanking, may help some people heal from trauma.

Spanking therapy is not necessarily sexual, and some people may see it in a similar way to other forms of physical therapy. Others may see it as a more ritualistic experience.

If that has you interested, you can follow the link below, to go directly to the article

SPANKING THERAPY IN MEDICAL NEWS TODAY

Or try this more in depth article from 2020

WHAT IS SO APPEALING ABOUT BEING SPANKED

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HOW HIGH?

A Little Matter Of Levelling Up

This post was inspired by an image that was posted in the last “Spec”tacular spanking post, on this blog. This image, to be precise.

I noticed that to get her spankee to an acceptable height to be spanked OTK, in this situation, she had utilized a case, to put under her feet. This looked like a very sensible idea to me. It is always better if a spankee is at a convenient height for the spanker to deliver the punishment properly. This is especially true with caning.

Personally, I prefer the sensation of a caning that results in stripes that look like this

To a caning where the stripes are applied diagonally, like this

The spankees rear end being at a relevant height to the spanker is a great aid to achieving this. As can be seen in this GIF.

It does not help that some spanking furniture seems to be designed to be too low. Such as this spanking bench.

I did notice in the old Lupus Films videos, that the producers had noticed this themselves and had adapted the famous spanking bench, from their Principal’s office series.

From this

To this

Making life more comfortable for their performers, although not less painful 🙂

It is always useful to be adaptable in a spanking situation. There are plenty of easy solutions to getting the spankee to the right height. As shown in the next two images.

The above image came from

CONTEMPORARY LIFE

And if funds are available to supply a dedicated spanking bench, plenty are available at appropriate heights. Like this one.

Remember spankers, your bottom, or sub will always feel you are more skilled, if you make the effort to keep things, horizontal and even. Whatever you are spanking them with.

Please feel free to add any important points, that I have missed on the topic of relative spanker to spankee heights, in the comments section below.

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SPANKING IT ON WORDLE

Perverting Wordle

A lot of you, especially those of you active on Twitter, will already know what Wordle is. But for those of you that don’t, it is a word game that you are only allowed to play once a day. You type any five-letter word into the first line and have six lines in total, to guess what the word is. If you have the right letter in the right place, it will show green. If you have a letter that is in the word but is in the wrong place, it will turn yellow. If the letter is not in the word, it will show up grey.

There is a better explanation of this in the following link

WORDLE THE GUARDIAN

And if you want to have a go at the game yourself, try this link

WORDLE

I got into this over the Christmas break and now it is the thing that wakes my brain up, over my morning coffee. To start with, I chose sensible words, with lots of vowels, for my first try. But soon my twisted little mind insisted that I start with spanking related words. It amazed me in the difference between the word I started with and what I ended up with. I thought that it would be nice to share a few examples here.

Spank

In 4 lines I got

Tapir

Caned

Image found at

CONTEMPORARY LIFE

In 3 lines I got

Crank

Tawse

In 4 lines I got

Ferry

Dunce

In 3 lines I got

Tiger

Horse (used as a verb)

In 4 lines I got

Siege

Welts

In 3 lines I got

Troll

Some of my other efforts were also far from where they started. Scold became Unify. Whack became Rebus. Birch became Boost. Bench became Banal. Strap became Truss. Brush became Gorge.

I am running out of spanking words now, any suggestions are welcome

Or perhaps I should broaden out into general BDSM words like Bound or Domme or Clamp 🙂

Try the game, it is a lot of fun, here is the link to it again

WORDLE

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GETTING TO THE BOTTOM OF ART

I recently stumbled across a photo feature in the UK newspaper “The Guardian”, about mainstream artists take on the human posterior. You can see it through the following link

THE CHEEK OF IT

Some of it I liked and some not so much. I thought that it might be fun to compare some this mainstream art work with buttock centric art from around the spankoverse

The Guardian

The Spankoverse

Image found at

DEVIANT ART

The Guardian

The Spankoverse

Image found at

O AND P SPANKING STORIES

The Guardian

The Spankoverse

Image found at

DEVLIN O’ NEIL’S WEB LOG

What is your opinion?

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