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This Is The Cage I Have Now

I have had this little beasty, for more time than I would care to remember. When I got it, it was a pricey, high-end model. You can pick up ones like this pretty cheap now. Although it is still a good, sturdy piece of kit that does the job well. I am not into chastity and denial and except for one occasion, have never worn this for more than a few hours. But in the past it has helped me get play dates with fellow amateurs, which might not have happened otherwise. Having met a potential playmate only a few times, often they can feel a bit nervous about going somewhere private with someone they do not know well enough to trust yet. Throwing this into the mix and the other party knowing that I am rendered harmless to them, indeed reliant on them, to release me has been a deal maker.

So What Is The Problem?

A small problem, is that the pins marked A, in the photo, fit into the sockets marked B. These can be very painful skin pinchers and are difficult to line up. The big problem, though, is that the ring, C, is fixed. I am pretty average in the porcelain pointer department, but my two veg are a little larger than normal. The fixed ring, on this, is 50 mm and is the largest available for this model. It has always been a struggle getting it on, but trying it recently, after not using this for some years, It was somewhat painful to get things to fit (I am sure they are getting bigger, as I age) and it is not hard to imagine that this might be a problem in a pressure on situation. The good feature, that I would like to keep the same, is the small padlock, marked D. These are easily available and some women like to bring their own, to make sure that I do not have a spare key.

The Solutions

I want to get a model with a hinged ring, similar to the ones above, but with no pins and sockets.

This Is The One That I Am Considering

A shop, not too far away from me, is selling this model. It has a hinged ring, no pins and sockets and is considerable lighter, than the one I have now. The weight of my current cage can be an issue, after a couple of hours. I really like the way that this looks, too.

I have only ever owned one Cock Cage, in my life. So if anyone with more experience than me has an opinion on the model above, or recommendations for something else, I would gladly like to hear what you have to say.

All advice welcome



Before the punishment (or funishment) with a leather toy starts the said toy can make some wonderful sounds that can play interesting tunes in the recipients ears. Leather is special that way 🙂

The slap of a belt on a hand

The crack of a well swung whip

A flogger can produce a whole pallet of sounds

Especially the soft swoosh of tails against a leg

Even in main stream movies, a well swung stretch of leather can produce that MMM! feeling

OK you have had your blog reading break, it’s time to…



I own a rather large carpet beater and I love the way it makes me dance in a play situation. Although I have been spanked with that and two other carpet beaters they have all been of the same design, which is easily available from a chain store here in Belgium. I would like to experience some of the other designs of this toy and have discovered some GIFs of the variations available of this particular type of pervertable.

This one is a lot like mine

And so is this one

I like the three leaf clover style of this one

This one looks like it would be sharp and concentrated

This one looks like it covers a large area with good airflow

And finally this one seems to create the most pleasing wobble

Me thinks that I will have to explore expanding my collection of this particular type of pervertable 🙂

A Kinky Christmas Card



Not so long ago I made a post about submissive dolls, that you can see through the link below


So lets even up the score for the submissives out there, looking forward to shuffling downstairs on Christmas day, their restraining chains clanking as they excitedly open their presents to hopefully find a nice dominant doll set beneath the wrapping paper.

Dungeon Delilah

A belting Barbie and caned Ken set

Swishing Swedish Sue and Gary the gimp

Rough riding Rita

Teasing Tess and stand up Stan

Whiplash Wendy

The corporal Chloe and private Man set

Just think of all the fun a submissive could have, playing out their favourite CP scenarios on top of the desk that they will later be bent over for their Christmas caning 🙂

A Bondage Christmas Card



Have you been wracking your brains trying to find the perfect Christmas gift for your Top or Dom(me) this year? Worry no further. Imagine as they run down stairs, their leather pajamas squeaking as they rummage under the tree to unwrap that gift and find that they have a bright shiny new submissive dolly to play with. They will get so exited that they might drop their flogger. There seems to be a good range to choose from.

Floggable Floella

Open Ophelia

Pilloried Polly

Bar Babe Betty

Cinder Spreader

St Andrew’s Cross Andrea

If your Top or Dom(me) has been very very very good this year perhaps they deserve a life sized submissive doll

Or are those last two just a way to sneak an extra guest into the house for Christmas Dinner?

Legal notice – Dolls are not guaranteed for candle or heat play, excessive impact play, tattooing, needle play, scat play (EWE!) or any activity exceeding their hard limits or safe words.

A Kinky Christmas Card



Some Gaston Sonck Leather Work

For any new visitors to the world of spanking, a pervertable is a vanilla article that can be used in spanking or BDSM play

I am now the proud owner of a belt and a short strap made by Gaston Sonck of Butterfly Leather. This guy does not have a huge internet footprint but you can check out his Facebook page through this link


Whilst on a visit to Durbuy, in September I saw this small leather shop and had to pop in to have a look around

The moment that I walked in the smell hit me. The smell of real leather. Not like the leather that you get now but the leather that you used to get during my childhood and youth. The smell that leather spanking toys used to have in my early days as an adult spankee. This is stiff harsh leather, not the supple pliant leather of these times. This was real, old fashioned leather.

I knew that I had to have something to play with from this shop. You just cannot find this type of leather around any more. And all the articles in this shop where hand crafted and hand tooled. I chose a wide belt and a short strap, that was meant to be a wrist band but I refused the offer of Mr Sonck to but the attachments on to it and fit it to my wrist as I wanted it for a spanking strap, although I did not tell him that 🙂 .

I am not a great fan of the decorations on the strap but of the selection available it was the most suited for spanking games. It is 30 centimetres long, 3 centimetres wide and like the belt 4 millimetres thick. just nice for a small OTK or dogging strap.

The belt has a detachable buckle and is curved in shape to better fit the human form, just like real belts in the old days used to be and is decorated with a flower and leaf design. It is nearly 120 centimetres long, 4 centimetres wide, 4 millimetres thick, is stiff and stout. This beast is going to hurt like hell and I am longing to find out how painful it is.

To buy the two articles I talked with Mr Sonck, who spoke good enough English and we struck a bargain of 50 Euros. not cheap but well worth the quality and craftsmanship, in my opinion.

Usually I buy pervertable because they make cheap and effective spanking toys but for this belt and strap it was well worth the cash for the chance to experience the lash of leather on skin, from the times when leather was real leather and not overly supple strips as it is now.

If you ever find yourself in the city of Durbuy, in the Belgian Ardennes, I recommend that you take a look around Mr Sonck’s shop, It’s not hard to find Durbuy is a very small place, even if it is only to take in the smell of real leather and see the beauty of leather craftsmanship.